Angie
19 years ago
Bob gave you some damn good advice and I would give you the same as he. Do what you will with it. |
Kaitlin Kristina
19 years ago
Mackenzie- |
Kaitlin Kristina
19 years ago
Mackenzie- At 12 you should not be having to deal with this. You need to tell an adult who will do the right thing, sweetie. Honestly, you have no idea how much you will regret this when you are older, I assumed you were a bit older by your posts, but this shouldnt have to rest on your shoulders. |
Bogie
19 years ago
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Rachel E F Allen
19 years ago
Honey, my heart goes out to you. I read down all of the advice and I absolutely agree. It sounds to me as though you have a lot resting on your shoulders. There are so many people about there who can help you and I urge you (from a person who understands abuse and what effect it can have on your life because she didn't 'tell') please please please say something to anybody about both your mother and father. A teacher, vicar, family friend, social worker, police whoever. Somebody in a position of responsibility will help you honey because no one, and I mean NO ONE, has the right to put you through any amount of pain in this way. The responsibility to stick up for your brothers and sisters lies with you because you are brave enough to ask for help. Like you said if the authorities know that he has an abusive history then they will stand up and listen honey I promise you. Just remember that you are never alone. It sickens me to think that a family can go through this type of struggle still in this day and age of readily available help. Honey hang in there and be strong for your sanity. I understand the feelings that you may have of love still for each and every member of your family but trust me sweetheart if you 'tell' things will get better, they may be hard for a while, but they will get better. |
Abigail Rayne
19 years ago
You need to do what you did in the first place... get away from him! Go to any of those places with a Safe Place sign on them or call the police and/or Child Protective Services on him. Whether or not you have evidence, you can still get away from him for a while and tell people about it to get him monitered. Sadly this isn't the first time I've heard of this sort of thing happening... and it probably won't be the last. Feel free to E-mail me for more specific advice, a voice to talk to or anything else you may need. |
Abigail Rayne
19 years ago
No one should have to go through this alone may they be 12 or 112. Tell someone! |
Rachel E F Allen
19 years ago
Well expressed Crux, silence a killer - that is one of the most potently powerful phrases I have ever heard connected to abuse xx |