Will a player ever change his game?

  • holly
    20 years ago

    Im in love with a player and i dont no wat to do
    please help

  • Kaitlin Kristina
    20 years ago

    Not until he gets some hard knocks.

    He has to have an epiphany, and chances are, it wont be the one that loves him that changes his paradigm.

  • holly
    20 years ago

    ok den fnx
    ive bin with him b4 but he cheated on me
    he's wit sum1 else now but i want him back
    wat do i do

  • Kaitlin Kristina
    20 years ago

    Why would you want to be with someone who treats you like shit and obviously has no respect or loyalty to you, and who apparently does not care if he hurts you or not?

    You dont WANT to claim someone like that. You deserve better, let him screw over other girls, dont allow yourself to be a doormat any more. Find someone that will love you and that you can trust.

  • Bret Higgins
    20 years ago

    Holly, do yourself a huge favour and ignore the player type. sure they are exiting and attractive, but they attract girls all the time and are prone to go with them reglardless of whether they have a girl or not.

    A player will treat you like a doormat for as long as he can get away with it. When he says he is sorry, he is not sorry for cheating, he is only sorry that he got caught.

    Big boot, girl. Find someone worthy of your affection.

  • Eibutsina
    20 years ago

    Do leopards ever change their spots???

  • Bret Higgins
    20 years ago

    Well, I consider myself to have been a player of sorts in my youth.

    (I never cheated on anyone)

  • Kaitlin Kristina
    20 years ago

    Well I think that players can change, just dont think YOU will change him.

  • R
    20 years ago

    i really doubt it, but you never know. some people change for the better, some people change for the worse and stay that way. you never really know, but i would hate for my heart to be broken twice by the same person.

    -Rose

  • Kaitlin Kristina
    20 years ago

    I should rephrase what I said earlier. I know for a fact players CAN change.

    But it is never LOVE that changes their paradigm. It is pain.

    A player just has a certain view of women, and views can change. Why wouldnt it be possible for them to realize that the grass may be greener on the other side of monogamous pastures?