Read this plz and give me your advice

  • dragonfly
    19 years ago

    Theres a guy at school i kinda like, and i know hes going to ask me out. Hes not a virgin and i'm afraid he'll want me to have sex with him especially since he asked his last g-friend if she wanted to after a week and a half. I'm a virgin and i do not want to have sex with him,but i don't want to hurt his feeling eithier. It would also be a akward situation if i go out with him because hes like 6'4" and i'm 4'11". I know i'm short. But anyways that would be really strange. Hes also coming over this weekend and my parents won't be home and knowing him he'll bring beer or some other alcoholic beverage. Any advice would be great! Thanks!

  • Finalgravedigger
    19 years ago

    If you dont trust him for get him and remeber power in numbers you must be hot

  • dragonfly
    19 years ago

    Hardly (about being hot) but thanks

  • t i f f a n y ♥
    19 years ago

    Okay, first of all, it don't matter if you're short. I am pretty short and my boyfriend is like a foot taller than me, so that don't matter hun.

    And about the sex thing, that don't matter either. You're saying you're not ready for sex so don't have it. Who cares if you hurt his feelings? It's better to hurt his feelings rather than go against your own morals.

    Good luck hun.

  • BleedingAngel
    19 years ago

    Don't do it....I did the same thing and I got raped....So PLEASE don't do it!!!!

  • pinkalias
    19 years ago

    your height has nothing to do with this post, that was a worthless comment.

    This doesn't belong in depression....did you read the topic? it probably belongs in "others" or "meet friends" or something.
    I have no idea why you put it in here

  • Just Sierra
    19 years ago

    wow!! I can't believe this, I keep coming across rude, hurtful comments that do nothing but ignite some kind of hatred in someone. I'd be more than happy to help give you some advice. If he is like that, don't let him go too far. Stop him when you've reached your limit and just tell him you're done. Don't get drunk, just keep your head on, things will be fine I'm sure. Just be cool and relax, the evening will be over soon I'm sure!!!