dragonfly
19 years ago
Theres a guy at school i kinda like, and i know hes going to ask me out. Hes not a virgin and i'm afraid he'll want me to have sex with him especially since he asked his last g-friend if she wanted to after a week and a half. I'm a virgin and i do not want to have sex with him,but i don't want to hurt his feeling eithier. It would also be a akward situation if i go out with him because hes like 6'4" and i'm 4'11". I know i'm short. But anyways that would be really strange. Hes also coming over this weekend and my parents won't be home and knowing him he'll bring beer or some other alcoholic beverage. Any advice would be great! Thanks! |
olivia
19 years ago
well 1st off height thing really shouldnt be too bad tall guys r sexy =).My husband is 6'4 so i now how you feel. As far as him having sex experience shouldnt affect you if he truly likes you and you tell him your not rdy to be in a sexual relatioship if conversation comes up then hell respect that.If he doenst respect that and tries to pressure you in any way hes not worth your time.Tellign him ur not rdy for such a commiment wouldnt be hurting his feelings itd be expressing how you feel nothing wrong with that.If hes coming over and yo fea hell bring alcohol and you do not want that situation simply express to him how you feel tell him if he wants to come over not to bring things liek that if tehy make you uncomftable and do not wnat him drinking or trying to pressure you while drunk.Once again if he truly lieks you such a request shouldnt be a problem its your house he hsould respect anything you ask.If not move on hes not worth your time. Lots of luck to you. |
littleone14
19 years ago
tell him straight up you don't want to have sex think of your feelings not his. you'll only end up getting hurt. then see where it goes |