Difficult situation...

Theres a guy at school i kinda like, and i know hes going to ask me out. Hes not a virgin and i'm afraid he'll want me to have sex with him especially since he asked his last g-friend if she wanted to after a week and a half. I'm a virgin and i do not want to have sex with him,but i don't want to hurt his feeling eithier. It would also be a akward situation if i go out with him because hes like 6'4" and i'm 4'11". I know i'm short. But anyways that would be really strange. Hes also coming over this weekend and my parents won't be home and knowing him he'll bring beer or some other alcoholic beverage. Any advice would be great! Thanks!

u know ur answer well dragonfly its not bout hurting his feeling its bout respecting ur decision so my advice stick 2 ur rule in other words convey him ur decision firmly if he gud fella he will respect ur decision without getting offended.

This guy does not sound like a good influence. Keep in mind that if you drink or use with him, you wont really be in the right frame of mind to tell him "no," if he does push for sex.

Stand your ground and tell him no way, but in all honesty, I would NOT be going out with someone like that. He needs to respect your body, your feelings, and your decision.

And if the height is an issue, get heels or stilts ;)

If he comes round on saturday tell him as he walks in that you like him but nothing is going to happen. Be blunt but friendly.

Tell him that if he does try anything you'll call the police afterwards and prosecute. He's 6'4", you're 4' 11", also say it will be evident to the police that you have no chance of defending yourself from him.

If he likes and respects you he'll be patient, simple as that.

Dragonfly- You are getting yourself into a bad situation, and you know it, listen to your intuition and your logic before something bad happens.

Although bad boys are appealing for a plethora of reasons, just know that you will end up paying the price if you do something stupid.

tell him to leave you alone. don't let him come to your house. hurting his feelings is better than giving up a part of yourself you can never get back.