HELP MEEEEEEEE

Hey I'm totally in love with this guy n he loves me but I just don't want a bf but i dnt fink hes willing to wait wat can i do?????

If you like him.... why dont you want a boyfriend?

i dn't want a bf coz i've gt to much goin on in my life a bf will complicate it

OK, well you have a couple choices, you can make room for a boyfriend in your life, or you can lose him. He has to do what makes him happy too, and if you talk it out with him and let him know that you may not be able to dedicate as much time to him as you should for a while, but that you still like him, he will either tell you thats alright and want to be with you regardless or he will have to move on.

I generally dont like the, "I've got too much going on," reason for not going out with someone, because its normally a cop out, but I dont know anything about your life, so I cannot say that is the case in yours. If you liked him enough, you would do anything to have him.... think about that.

If he isnt willing to wait for you...he isnt the right guy. Im not saying that he isnt worth it...but let him know that having a bf would complicate things, and ask if he is willing to wait for you. another good solution is friends with benifits. That always works too. :p

hey thanks for all your help please keep them coming in