SOO FRUSTERATED

i love my boyfriend so much....but he hasnt been paying as much attention to me as he used to...he rarely ever calls me and he is just being inconsiderate ive been having tough times and i really need him there but he just doesnt seem to care...ive been thinking about taking a break or even ending it with him but i cant bring myself to doing it i wanna just stick it out buit im starting to feel like a doormat....im always there to listen to him when he is having troubles i feel ilike im the one keeping this relationship going...im so frusterated!!!

talk to him .tell him how u feel....once he realises he isnt making the effort he should then he will do somthing about it.

also find out whats happening round his end...he may be goin through stresses of life too.

I am kinda in that position too. Guys can be dense (sorry if that offends anyone) and they dont realize if they are doing anything different. Some of my guy friends think that we get sick of all that attention, so they stop givin' us all of it. But i think that hussain was right...just talk to him. If he knows how you feel, he might change. But if he is doing it intentionally, then that has opened up if he wants to take a break or end it too. So, i think that your best bet is to stick it out and talk to him about it.

why don't you try to talk to him...tell him your observations...

when i start the subject he usally changes it..like i will be like baby you stress me out why dont you ever call and he'll be like im sorry and be like oh yea!...so and so bla bla bla...

do you still feel he still loves you? if you do then try to understand him but if you think he's not in love with you anymore then its tim efor you to move on separate ways...sometimes the best way to understand things and to see the real situation is to get out of the scene....he really loves you he'll get back to you...

kami-confused again!!!

confused about what?

i dunno, about EVERYTHING, lol.

you are exactly like me....i get confused too

THANK YOU GLENDA!! you are exactly right...and thanks everyone else too you guys are angels

you are welcome! :) are you a member of friendster? pls add me, twister0916@yahoo.com

whats friendster? i will sign up for it but how do you do it... i have msn and myspace

i do i love him but right now im going trhough soo much....i was diagnosed with bipolar and i have to go to this facility to treat it because its out of control...you know if he was there for me going through all this i would stay with him but...hes not he doesnt even seem to care he gets drunk every night...and i even started blaming myself for his behavior

don't you ever blame yourself for someone else behavior...what they are doing is thier own choice...its thier responsibility to run thier lives so don't ever think that its your fault whenever something bad is happening to them....

its like myspace too...just type www.friendster.com to your address bar then there is an instruction there on how to sign in:)
you know what, somehow we are goin through same situation...good luck!!!!!!!!

Sooo sorry Kami!!

ITS OK ANGEL!!! I WILL TELL YOU WHAT HAPPEND...ITS GOOD.....GLENDA...THANK YOU I JOINED FRIENDSTER WHAT DO WE DO NOW?

TODAY!!! My boyfriend came down to visit....i saw him and i just knew i love him and i couldnt let it go...and you know i relized is that there is no way that me and him could ever have anyhting come beteween us...he jsut needs to breath and i need to breath and he knew it that is why he didnt call....i just think im so scared of getting hurt that i am just planning on getting hurt and i jsut want to get it over iwth.....guy just remind me when i sound down about my boyfriend remeber i said this!!HE loves me and i felt it today i know he loves me and today was just great...i held my baby...and i was happier then ever!! YEA!

now you could invite your friends to join you...just click in "invite" in th emessage board then type the name or e-mail address of your friend whom you want to invite....here's my email, twister0916@yahoo.com...my name is glenda g. gabris....can you give me you email add so just in case il just be the one to add your name in my friendster...:)

that's great kami!!! :) I'm really happy for you...I'm glad everything getting better now...:)

mines...chickensrgreat@hotmail.com.....