i'm confused....

i'm inlove with this man...i knew for the start that somehow he also loved me not until i found out that they are still together with the girl he's referring as his ex...the moment i found out about it, i tried to let go of him but because i really love him I accepted him when he came back to me saying that he would choose me over the other girl...i thought the problem was over until i found out that they are still together...he said he loves us both and he's confused until now....it's very painfull...the pain is slowly killing me...i love him so much but i am already tired of loving him and i can't continue the relationship knowing that Im sharing him with another girl...i let go of him totally but since we are in the same workplace its not that easy...up to now he still insist that he misses me and he does not understand why i am avoiding him...i love him so much and its hurting me like hell...i wanted to fight for this love but do you think its worth it, since its obvious that he loves the other girl than me?

Personally, I don't think it is worth it....he is obviously not dedicated to you, and it's pretty obvious that he never will be, therefore you should not waste your time on him....that's all I have to say really....Just my opinion...

Kalika

Love can hurt like hell and does hurt like hell, but he is not gonna change. you need to move on. it takes time, sometimes a lot of time believe me, but one day you'll see you were worth so much more than him and someone will treat you the way you want to be treated.

to kalika...
thank you...that's what all my friends say...im really trying to get over him but it is hard...im just so stupid because of all the people, i chose him to love...im looking forward that a day would come where in I could look into his eyes and tell to myself that i am over him....

to tainted butterfly...
you're right it would really take time since i got to see him everyday because we are officemates...i really wish i would regain my peaceful world before i ever met him...

if he loves two girls at the same time ...then even if he does eventually chose and go with you how do u know he would be completely faithfull to you ? because he isnt to his ex ? i dont think he is worth it to be honest. they say love is blind....so i would suggest its time to open your eyes! and see the true reality of the situation. am sure you will find the one for you. good luck

to hussain...
heared it from a guy...your opinion is highly appreciated...:)

always glad to help....... am a good listener too or so my friends tell me :)