Please help me :(

ok, me and my boyfriend have been going out for two weeks now...in the beginning of the relationship I was EXTREMELY shy around him and I still am. He seems to be shy around me too. It's like we don't want to mess everything up. I want to make a move, yet, I'm way to scared I'm going to ruin something. I've heard that he wants to make a move also, yet, doesn't want to ruin anything either. I would confront him about the topic too, but I'm not exactly sure how to do that either. Someone PLEASE help me. :(

I'm shy too, it sucks man!!

It does! But, what should I do? I'm really scared about ruining everything, but I don't want to let this fear ruin the relationship... It seems like a lose, lose situation. :(

Ah, I dunno. I'm shy as well. Hmmz, I don't know...put your arms around him??? Nothing so bad with that...right?

yeah. we're never alone...alone. like, if we are alone. someone's bound to come up. and i'm not ashamed of the relationship at ALL! but... i just... i dunno. i dont know how he'd feel about it. :( so i dont want to do it, in case he doesnt want to. thats why im like..>AHHH

what you should do is just go up to him and hug him. Break the ice bcuz you know he wants to make a move and huggin iz the best way to break the ice and if your feelin strong enough give him a little peck on the check. i'm not really shy but when i was i always did that so try it and see where it takes you.

ok, thank you. i mean, we hug and hold hands all the time. but I dont get brave enough to kiss him. and either he doesnt want to or he is too shy to kiss me. :( i mean, we've kissed once, but it was completely ruined. ok, i gave him a hug, and earlier everyone was like "kiss her!!!" and stuff and so when i hugged him when he had to go, i was like "well do you want to?" and he didnt say anything so when i went to look at him when we finished hugging, my hair got in my face and he kissed me THROUGH my hair. i was so embarrassed, but i was happy. and he said he'd see me the next day. well i called him that night, and i said "im sorry about today. how my hair got in the way...and now im really embarrassed" and he goes "its ok, and besides...there's always tomorrow" and we havent done anything since then. :( is there something wrong?

thats don't be afraid to kiss him grab him and pull aside look him in the eyes and gently kiss him on the lips. the hair thing is kinds funny once you think about it don't let that keep you guys kissin each other

i thought it was embarrassing yet really funny. we both laughed, then he said "there's always tomorrow" and that "tomorrow" hasnt happened yet. :( i mean, i really wanna kiss him, but im WAY to shy. im trying to get over it. but in a way i want HIM to make the move. i want HIM to surprise me. but i think im setting myself up for a downfall. i think i may end up having to make the move. like today. he came over and we watched The Incredibles (good movie) and we were both sitting there and it was all awkward and stuff. so i reached over and grabbed his hand. and we held hands through the movie. and at the end of the day when he had to go home, i gave him a hug. :) i'm proud of myself. its just the kissing thats driving me crazy. right now i wont kiss him unless my swelling goes down. i had my wisdom teeth cut out friday so my cheeks are swollen :) Hehe. but i still wnana kiss him, and if its gone down then i should see him at church or something tomorrow. but, AHH i hate being shy!!

I WANT SOME GUYS' ADVICE TOO!!!!! PLEASE AND THANK YOU!

lol!! That happened sort of with me in the movie theater. It was dark in a horror film and my boyfriend was holding me, blah blah, and he was messing with my neck and cheeks. Someone on the screen, yah I'm gay i was actually watching the movie cuz I didn't like the guy-I'm so mean, was brutally murdered so I screamed and jumped back to look at him, just as he was reaching for my neck, and our heads crashed together and he ended up kissing my nose. Quite humiliating for both us-I broke up with him the next day-I'm such a heartbreaker

The sad part was it was Valentines Day and he bought me TONS of roses and I got him a dead rose!! lol! *blushes* I'm a horrible girlfriend, I know.

awwwwww. ok i think i've made up my mind. tomorrow i think im gunna kiss him! :) well, thats IF i go to church or not. if not then i'll try to go to one of his baseball games on tuesday. :) then i'll kiss him there. i'll kiss him the next time i see him though! or i'll try to. i hope my swelling goes down so i can see him tomorrow! :) ahh, now im excited. i really wanna kiss him. but what if he doesnt know like, what im doing and he backs away or something. :( ahh now im nervous again. nevermind. no kissing from me.

KISS him he won't back up jus look him in the eye and lean in

easier said than done. hey, dont leave for a while, i wanna continue to talk to you. you seem like an awesome person. thank you so much. but as for kissing him. i would...but i dont think it would work. we arent alone that much at church! :) heh. yes im plotting kissing him at church! :)

Hahaha-i just realized I didn't give you the best example I should have to lighten you up. Sorry! lol.

thats cute i used to do that. lol. do u have instant messanger

i used to have msn messenger...but its messing up. so right now...no. sorry.

as for you ignorantangel its ok! :) it made me smile. :)

oh ok you remend me of how i used to be. i think we're gonna be good friends. lol

i was thinking about just like being casual and going "hey, can i have a kiss?" but i think that would be more awkward, and a little lame...

oh ok you remend me of how i used to be. i think we're gonna be good friends. lol

i was thinking about just like being casual and going "hey, can i have a kiss?" but i think that would be more awkward, and a little lame...

hehe, i didnt mean to post that twice. WOOPS...anyway...yeah, i think we'll get along great

you can email me at Cute_and_psycho130@yahoo.com i just need your name so i know who is emailing me

don't ask just do it he wants to kiss you from whaat you hear right

lol-advice just go for it. Someone's got to be the brave one, and you should show him who's in control. I'm sure he'll think its hott. Just go for it!!

lil playa or littleone

ok, remember me telling you how that day everyone was like "kiss her!!!" ?? well, soemone went up to him and like, whispered to him...man, kiss her!" and he goes "i will!!" but he would get nervous. so i dont konw if he does but i THINK so. O_O and i dont want to like scare him. but from what i hear... guys like it when girls are like, assertive. like if i was to just like push him up against a wall and start making out with him, he'd like it. but i doubt thats him. and thats SO not like me to be THAT assertive.

lol-why not? I'm sure he'd be dead shocked!! Lol!! He'd also think it was kinky!!

do you have a phone you can call me from

thank you so much you guys! :) you're so much help! now im like WOO lets kiss!!! haha...but i wish he was here...and do you think its weird...i can still smell him from when he was over today..... or i think ican. O_O ahh he smells so good.

littleone14 yeah i do. i just need a phone number to call. and do you have caller id? just wondering.

lol thats great ya it's my cell just call it resricted

see if i ever go to his house or he comes here. i will do that. i'll like go on a "walk" with him and i'll probably take him to this one spot that i like...its great

thats cute. do that

yes, i'll call you, i need your number though. DUH

did you get that cuz i don't wanna leave it o for a long time cuz i don't want people to get it

yeah, i got it. hang on lemme do two things...1)make sure parents are sleeping. and 2) find a charged phone. hang on i'll be right back

errr....how late is it where you're at? lol-talking mushy gushy on the phone!! Wish I could join, but darn, its too late here, lol!!

wait, re post it...i didnt write it down no. sorry hang on now i have to find paper too. :( email it to me if you want. remember cute_and_psycho130@yahoo.com or just re post it for like 2 minutes hang on though.

just re post it i'll put it in a word document. :) hang on and its 12:34 am ...

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