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  • Anthony burke
    20 years ago

    ok since the majority of you will read this just because someone told you not to, i have 1 statement i would like to make and then a question but please 1 answer per person.....

    Ok my statement is that i love cheese

    my Question is : What makes you want to live.

    Now i dont want any one sentence answers i want well thought out answers what makes you live though all the pain and suffering go thru every minute of every hour of every day of every month of every year???

    Dont answer if you donw want to and dont read if you dont like it

    But if you dont answer it here answer it in your heart without a reason what are we..

    I have no reason i live life just to see tommorow and yet tommorow never came.

  • Eibutsina
    20 years ago

    Once you lose someone who is really close to you you can often find the hidden values in life

  • Kaitlin Kristina
    20 years ago

    *For the sake of reverse psychology working so predictably.

    I live life because I have no better alternative. What keeps my head up through the struggles is that maybe next time I will learn not to walk through the quick sand and take the long way instead of the potentially dangerous short cut that landed me in the deep shit I'm in.

    And that I can help other people, because I figure I must be here for a reason. To think I dont have a purpose is depressing, and depressing thoughts dont make you want to live, so if I start down that destructive path of thinking I end up in the quick sand again, and that doesnt help me out much; because needless to say, if I sink, I need no reason to live anyway.

  • BaybeBlew
    20 years ago

    ^ Thats a good answer.

    What makes me want to live ---> 5 reasons

    1. Everybody wants to go to heaven, but no one wants to die. I don't believe in heaven, so therefore I am kind of afraid to die.

    2. I love life, why would I not want to live? I mean sure, there are some ups and downs, but I'm a pretty easy going person. It isn't difficult to make me smile.

    3. I love a boy

    4. I just started supporting this little kid through World Vision, and if I died, I wouldn't be supporting him anymore...and that makes me sad.

    5. My family

  • kami
    20 years ago

    my boyfriend i love gets me thoguh it and...marijuana gets me through it...

  • Kaitlin Kristina
    20 years ago

    I dont think no one wants to die.

    I have no problem with death whatsoever.

    Its HOW I die that I may have qualms with, but if I could die a relatively painless death so that someone who WANTED to live could, I would jump all over the option.

  • Kaitlin Kristina
    20 years ago

    Oh yeah... thats a nice one too ;)

    *Not that I would know...

  • BaybeBlew
    20 years ago

    Grammar Kaitlin, on your second post. ^

  • Kaitlin Kristina
    20 years ago

    What's wrong with my grammar?

  • BaybeBlew
    20 years ago

    I dont think no one wants to die.

    Wouldn't it be anyone?

  • Kaitlin Kristina
    20 years ago

    No, because I was responding to you. If anything, I could have put it in quotations, but this is what you said:

    "1. Everybody wants to go to heaven, but no one wants to die. I don't believe in heaven, so therefore I am kind of afraid to die."

    I was disagreeing, and used a double negative to show it:

    "I dont think no one wants to die,"

    I could have made it:

    "I dont think 'no one' wants to die,"

    So that it was more blatantly obvious I was responding.

    Thats all :)

  • BaybeBlew
    20 years ago

    Ohhh, I gotcha, I had to read it a couple times, but I got it now.

    You're quite right, I suppose some people do want to die...That makes me kind of sad :(

  • ~*LorienElf*~
    20 years ago

    right now ive been thinking about that a lot, and also why i dont want to live. but why i do want to live...probably the reasons are: first, because id hurt my family and friends in dying because loosing someone you are close to is so hard. second because i want to see whats gonna happen next, if you really think about life or your life, you come to the thought of whats going to happen next, and sometimes its just that simple curiousity that keeps me alive. and third because i really want to make something of myself or my life, sometimes i really just want to live out my dreams, and i dont want to be dead and have no chance to go back when it turns out that was my only time to have that kind of experience, and i want to make,not only my family, but i want to make myself proud. right now im not going about that very well, so thanks for the post, it really made me think about that and make me feel a bit better aout living, i still have times where the pain feels too much, but i can just remind myself of this.

  • Kaitlin Kristina
    20 years ago

    No problem, it's not even that some people DO WANT to die, but some people dont care either way.

    I'll live if I'm here- I may as well take advantage of the situation

    And If I could die in substitution of someone else who WANTED to live, I would do it.

    Life and living is indifferent to me, when it comes to death. I dont have a preference. I would not go out of my way to kill myself, nor would I fight to live if it were too much effort.

    I dont know if that makes much sense; but some people DO WANT to die, and some people dont care either way.

  • ~*LorienElf*~
    20 years ago

    i agree with the part about taking the place of someone who died that wanted to live, good thought, i would too

  • BaybeBlew
    20 years ago

    I suppose it does make sense, but I can't even imagine. I love life, it makes me so sad that so many people on this website are all about suicide and cutting.

    Don't take this the wrong way, but I hope someday your outlook on life changes.
    Sweet dreams. :-)

  • Shædow Poet
    20 years ago

    I only have one chance at life, so why die early, when there is so much knowledge and events that will happen for me as I grow up? Life, like said, is just one long roller coaster of ups and downs. It gives us thrills and scares, but the majority of people still want to ride it.

    As long as there is a poem left in me, a song to listen to, a funny outting with friends, or a new piece of information to learn and facinate, I will always want to live. My Uncle died two days ago, but his death has just made me realise how much I should value life. He was quite young too. Life is unexpected, that's what makes it so great.

  • Anthony burke
    20 years ago

    hmmmmm.....

    Most of this are great keep it up

    I feel that a lot of you have deep feelings on this topic let me hear them or at least like yourself hear them!

  • Sarah-Louise
    20 years ago

    The thing that makes me want to stick with life, is my future...I mean, it may sound cheesy, but you can do anything with your life. I'm interested to find out what I can become when I put my mind to it. I also love live...as said before, it has its ups and downs, but thinking honestly, we are all so damn lucky to be here today, because it is so easy to die! You get one chance at life...and even if you bodge it up, at least you've had your time! I am also madly in love with so many people, including each and every member of my family, even the ones who aren't here today...and I'm sure they want me to suceed!

    *thinks*...Miss World speech or what!!! LOL

  • Kalika
    20 years ago

    One of the only reasons that I stick around is that I want to be here for my son, and watch him grow old, and prtect him from the world....I want to be here for him always....I've thought about killing myself, but I've seen what it does to the person's family and friends....when my friend committed suicide, it tore me apart....living seems like the best option to me.....and the thought that things will get better in the end.....Jake (my kid) has made me realize that and I thank him for it everyday....

    Kalika

  • ~*^*~ longing to belong ~*^*~
    20 years ago

    Sometimes I want to die. But when I think like that I feel so guilty that I can't bare to actually kill myself. I remember everything that my mum has done for me, all the pain she's been through. I remember my dad and how much I want to forgive him but can't. I would hate for one of us to die before that happens. I remember all the fights I've ever had and how guilty I had. I feel like dyeing would be the easy way out for me but would be impossible for everyone to cope with. I couldn't do that to my family.