so tired of girls only wanting lust, never love

  • Janie
    19 years ago

    dude.... we're jerks don't talk to us... =) haha... but i feel like a peice of meat too whenever i'm around guys... haha... but i'm a virgin and i'm keepin it that way...

  • Kaitlin Kristina
    19 years ago

    I think that most girls like affection and attention more than just getting it on... maybe you're hanging out with weird girls...

    The ones I know would LOVE a sweet guy, but a bad guy more.

  • dani
    19 years ago

    not all girls are like that!!!!!!!!! i aint for sure lol, my mates are like that an that is really annoyin but am still a virgin an its stayin that way i dont kiss a guy if i dont no them anyway cos the chances are if i'm around them i'll be propa shy, if ya get mi drift, ur hanging round wiv the wrong crowd

  • Bret Higgins
    19 years ago

    You're 16... believe me love should not be on the agenda. Have fun, make out and get what you can as and when you can get it, it's all about life experience.

  • helena
    19 years ago

    wow i think its great you want lust and love i dont think i could live without either

  • pinkalias
    19 years ago

    hhhahhaaha
    hahhahahahhha
    HAHAHHAHAH

    oooh I think this calls for a serious "lmao"

    alright, I'm sure you are being treated like that I have no doubt. I just find it hilarious because i don't think I've ever heard the guy complain about bein the 'meat'
    This is definitly a first. How often do you hear a GUY complaining about being used for sex?

  • Babaths
    19 years ago

    Maybe because he wants something seriouse...

  • Sarah-Louise
    19 years ago

    God, if only i had the chance at love! I can't stand guys who just want to get in your pants! I want a relationship that actually means something...not to be flung around and used as a convenience!

  • EpithetPoet
    19 years ago

    most girls at this age, i dotn think anyway, are looking for love. there's just no point at this young of age. where's it going to go besides sex? our generation has been taught that having sex is sharing their utmost feeling with that other person and that those two people should be in love. this doenst happen most of the time, but maybe those girls are giving themselves up to you because they feel they can trust you and are showing you affection in the way they think you want. they might want to show you on a non physical level but are afraid to scare you off... if that makes sense. i went off on a couple tangeants there...
    -A

  • Just Sierra
    19 years ago

    Dude, lol, I've been driving myself crazy looking for love. I'm getting dumped tomorrow because I'm not a slut who goes around giving guys head, and apparently, my boyfriend is disproving of that. I'm not into the whole lust thing, I'm looking for something that'll last, so speak for yourself, lol.

  • Aken Sol
    19 years ago

    To the poster:

    W/e man, you sould just move to another crowd then. I know what you mean, sucks when you're finally ready to commit but no one takes you seriously :-/
    You might wanna stop dointg whatever you do with them too. Helps make a point.

    Aken Sol

  • pinkalias
    19 years ago

    EpithetPoet:
    I know my statement earlier sounded immautre and such (that was because I think this is a meaningless post, but whatever) but I just wanted to compliment you on your reply. I found it fit and good intellectual advice that makes perfect sense in reality, and well said.

  • Lovemylove
    19 years ago

    Well its nice to know that there are other guys out there that also care about love, most guys i've know only want sex and could careless about love.But keep hope you'll find that special someone soon.

  • EpithetPoet
    19 years ago

    hehe thanks pinkalias
    -A

  • Katie Bug :)
    19 years ago

    i know for one think i want a nice relationship that will last. i want it to mean LOVE with the occasional lust...but then again, im sure thats what everyone wants. i dont like relationships that are based around sex...therefore...i havent had it. :) i wish you luck on your problem...sorry if i wasnt help.

    *~*katie*~*