dad? what dad?

  • Georgi
    19 years ago

    neone elses dad walk out on them? i feel really lost without a father figure in my life :( ne1 feeling the same?

    xxxxx

  • BleedingAngel
    19 years ago

    My da has always been in my life, but he could be a really bastard, so I use to wish that he would just leave!!! Did he leave today???

  • Trisha
    19 years ago

    my FATHER might as well be none more than a sperm donor- even tho he wasnt. i never met him, talked to him 2 times on the phone- thats it. last time was when i was 7. my stepfather of 10 years was abusive, in all ways, so yeah. i have no father figure at all now, but the experiences ive had make me not want one. he messed me up pretty good, emotionally. so yeah- dads suck. im only nearly 16, but i feel 26.

  • Georgi
    19 years ago

    my stepdad is abusive too, and no he walked out when i was a baby

  • dragonfly
    19 years ago

    yea right after my mom told him i was born

  • Just Sierra
    19 years ago

    awww chica!!!! My daddio ditched me too, just when the going got rough-we don't talk often. It really, REALLY sucks. But its life I guess. At least neither my step dad or dad were abusive, though my dad was a child molestor for a while and a drug abuser. tsk tsk....and then there's me, the fucked up version of my family. And they think cutting is horrible, ha!! They don't know shit yet. lol.

    Love you lots Georgi!!

  • Trisha
    19 years ago

    isnt it just classic? it seems like it happens to most of my friends- did they ever think that maybe thats part of the reason we are the way we are?

  • lifes big mistake
    19 years ago

    my dad doesnt even deserve the name he walked out on me and he made my life hell 2 me he may aswell be dead is that how u lot feel?

    lilkit x

  • Georgi
    19 years ago

    aww u guys, we dont need our dads! lol,it is there loss. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

  • Trisha
    19 years ago

    yeah guys- we dont need our f*ed up dads (or moms, in some cases) its their loss. but yeah- the men (or women) who do this dont even deserve the name "parent"

  • Elyssa
    19 years ago

    MY DAD died when i was two, my step dad was horrible abusive to me, he was, till i told he is in jail, awating his trail.

  • Georgi
    19 years ago

    awww im sorry. when my dad walked out, i didnt see him for years, until he invited me and my mum to his wedding (rude!) and when we saw him mum pushed me to go talk to him, and when i did i hugged him and being the lil 5 year old i was, explained to him tht he was my "daddy mike" and his wife sitting next to him goes "mike i never knew u had a duaghter" and my dad goes "i dont...." and after tht i never saw him agen. he calls me occasionally. i call him daddy. duno why. i feel so lost without a father figure in my life. :'(

  • Trisha
    19 years ago

    that sux. it really does. sorry. hmm....this is a sad topic you know? my stepdad (lives seperate from us now) tries to spoil me to make up for the years of different types of abuse. i enjoy the spoiling- but it dont make up for anything.

  • Georgi
    19 years ago

    im glad u were able to find peace with ur dad. wish i cd feel the same way :( i am having a shit day 2day i just miss him so much