me and my ex are getting closer! HELP!

  • darkgrl21
    19 years ago

    Calm down and count to ten- 1st. Then you need to talk to him, ask him how he feels, if he feels like you do...you might be getting worked up for no reason. Also, if you know the relationship you are in isn't going anywhere you shouldn't be in it. Be fair to your bf and tell him that you don't feel its going anywhere. Regardless of whats going on with the ex, your new bf doesn't deserve that and neither do you. Its better to be single than to be with someone you don't feel anything with.

    Hope this helps

  • darkgrl21
    19 years ago

    just ask him straight out...tell him you still have feelings and were wondering if he did. That way he knows how you feel and won't be scared to admit the truth if he still cares.

  • Bret Higgins
    19 years ago

    If you don't want to be getting involved with the guy then put some distance between the two of you.

    You and and your ex are only getting closer because you are letting it happen.

  • krysten
    19 years ago

    well its two options either one he just wants to be a really good friend to you or he really loves you or likes you and wants to get back together.

  • Lil Luce
    19 years ago

    okay ive been in this situation. firsly i think that its too soon to be wi ur current b/f u are obviously not over ur ex and its not fair on either of u two to keep the rship going. secondly, yea i agree u need to sit down and have a chat wi ur ex and see where u stand. u are going to have to think about y u split up in the first place and if u think its wise to be getting bk together. if he feels the same then good luck! hope this helped let us all know!
    xxxLoUxxx