How long do you wait?

  • darkgrl21
    19 years ago

    There isn't a specific time you have to wait...I always go with the gut feeling. You will know when the time is right. I always wait till I am in a relationship for at least 3 months maybe more. But thats just me.

  • Ele
    19 years ago

    theres no specific time to wait. just wait till you know the person, really know them. you need to be sure they care about you and arent just using u

  • Kaitlin Kristina
    19 years ago

    Most guys dont respect a girl that gives it up too soon, you need to make him work for it a little bit if you are serious.

    Building a relationship does not involve casual sex, casual sex involved casual sex.

  • Ericka
    19 years ago

    i believe you and the guy know when the time is right. me and my boyfriend now have been together for 2 months and we haven't had sex yet ,but we have talked about it and agreed that when we are ready we will let each other know. it just depends on how you each feel and how close the relationship is.

  • Lovemylove
    19 years ago

    There isn't a certain time its when you think your ready to give yourself to that person.Also if you know in your heart its the right thing to do.

  • t i f f a n y ♥
    19 years ago

    Yeah, there is a certain amount of time you have to wait. It's up to you and your guy when you do it. It could be one night or when you get married! Lol, it's totally up to you. I've been with my boyfriend for a little over 3 years and we waited about a month and a half after we were together to have sex.

  • Eibutsina
    19 years ago

    well i think its different with every relationship hun you will know when you're ready

  • silentscream
    19 years ago

    when you REALLY REALLY want it

    but just give it to him if you love him

    i speak about that from experience

  • Lil Luce
    19 years ago

    okay when i was younger i always said that id wait a minimum of 6months but when i was 17 i met a guy fell in love and within 2months we had had sex...i know it seems quick but it was just right. we both wanted to and felt ready and loved each other and thats whats important. i think u need to wait to make sure the guys not just out for what he can get but u can usually tell and there shouldnt be a 'time limit' and u shouldnt b judged for doin it soon. its how u feel with each other thats important and time is just a number at the end o the day...
    xxxLoUxxx

  • krysten
    19 years ago

    when you are ready there is no limit but be careful b/c they might wait as long as nessasary to get what they want