it is all gone

You might think its stupid, but you have to respect his decision. If he thinks you should wait a while, then either wait on him or move on. But it takes two people to be in a relationship and if he's not ready or whatever, then you have to respect that.
I'm sorry, I know it sucks but its all part of it unfortunately. Don't worry, if its meant to be it will work out in the end.

Phone sex? I've never done that. lol. Is it really worth it?

haha ... wow wasnt this topic about loosing him or something it all of the sudden turned to phone sex and getting people pregnant