Good idea or bad? Running...

  • Incognito
    19 years ago

    I’m so sick of living here, I hate this place so much, It’s so negative. Not just my suburb but this whole city, the whole country, the people and their stupid values. I seriously have to get outta here. So at the end of this year I’m thinking bout getting on a plane and going to America (America chosen for immigration reasons only) and never coming bakk to this godforsaken place. Is it a good idea or am I just running away from my problems? Can people give me advice.

  • Just Sierra
    19 years ago

    America Rocks. But there are still many problems here that you'll have to face too!!

  • Kailynn Makenna
    19 years ago

    Yea i have to say i like it here in American but yea we do have problems to!

    right cuz i doubt that made any sense...
    ..anyway..

    xX-Katherine-Xx

  • Georgi
    19 years ago

    can i come with u? :(

  • Incognito
    19 years ago

    Sure

  • Incognito
    19 years ago

    Dunno where I'm going, just running blindly towards America.

  • lifes big mistake
    19 years ago

    dont run it will make things worse try stick with it hun x

  • Incognito
    19 years ago

    I don't think I can stay here much longer, its very negative, I'm always been pushed down. And I never feel safe, I can never be myself, it's too dangerous. I gotta get outta here. :(

  • Georgi
    19 years ago

    same! altho i dont hav enuff muny :( suggestions?

  • Georgi
    19 years ago

    incognito when u goin?! and how u plannin on gettin there?

  • Timothy B
    19 years ago

    So, you think your place is bad, well compare. I live on an island that is just a tiny dot on a map. this tiny island, even being so small, is curently amongst the most dangoures places i the world, thanks to drugs an holland(that's where the drugs are intended to go). the politics here are more concentrated on fighting each other, that to govern this island. the other 4 islands belonging to the netherlands antillies are almost as bad, but tell the world it's all cause of this island. we used to have ways to travel out of here in no time, but just like everything else, politics forced the local airline to shut dowm, so we are basically stranded. prices here are increasing every year, and people(sorry to say) are getting more stupid every year. even the politicians are getting more stupid. basically, this island is F****D.

  • Andriana
    19 years ago

    Bush is the biggest problem in the US. ;)

  • SavannahSurrender
    19 years ago

    I agree with ashlee. You can't run away from your problems. If you leave them and later on come back to the they will probably be worse.
    But America is good but its not all that great. We have alot of problems here too.
    hope things get better for ya!

    much love!
    xXSavannahXx

  • Incognito
    19 years ago

    I know that you can't run away from your own problems, but I want to run away somewhere safe where i'm not being threatened daily by violence, drugs, gangs, rape, general hate and psychos in the community. And there is a blanket of silence, esp in my family. I don't really need to get out of Australia, just away from here. But the further the better.

  • Just Sierra
    19 years ago

    Aye! What tEyS said.

    America is no different, really. In fact, all the people I live around only care about themselves. There's a lot of racism here, especially from my parents, though I don't fall for that kind of crap. Trust me, you're not escaping anything really.

    The same issues come up here too.

    Though if its what you really want, I'd love to make some new friends in Georgia! Live in my basement if you want!

    hehe....

    ~Sierra

  • Incognito
    19 years ago

    So then what? Stay here. I hate it here. OK so if I did stay here, how do I face these problems? I can't live in fear for the rest of my life.

    ...So Sierra, bout that basement of yours... teehee.

  • VSambulance
    19 years ago

    don't go to america go to canada...................we're on top...lol

  • Just Sierra
    19 years ago

    I hate it here too. Maybe you just need someone to be physically there for you, in which case, a new move would be great. But if you're trying to run away from something you caused, or your past, you won't find happiness here either. Everywhere you go people will misunderstand you. Its just something we do, I guess.

    hehehe-you're welcome to my basement anytime! lol.

  • Rozzy
    19 years ago

    i dont think your running away from your problems... i think your just sick of facing them.well i hope your happier in america!!!

  • VSambulance
    19 years ago

    no.........canada!

  • VSambulance
    19 years ago

    i see your using the philosophy of frederic nietzsche? lol

  • VSambulance
    19 years ago

    anyways.....incognito....if you really feel like running away is the only option..ok..but when you do move (if you do) it's going to be hard to start a new life out from scratch. not only that but whatever you're running from will HUNT you down..(lol)..just a thought

  • ScarredSoul
    19 years ago

    i think if u run away frum your problems
    your going to do it every time you cant handle something
    and your gonna get tired of tht
    i mean everywhere has problems

  • Incognito
    19 years ago

    Teys- there is a difference between rational and unrational fears. Walking down the street and getting threatened daily by old psychotic or alcoholic men wanting sex means that my fear of being raped is somewhat rational. How do you face something like that?

    OK I admit i'm running from a lot of other stuff too. I just want to see what life could be like if I'm not being pushed down by certain people.

  • Incognito
    19 years ago

    Yay Adie lets trade. :)
    Yay Teys has shown some compassion!!!

    Thanx everyone for trying to help. I still don't know. I'm gonna wait til the end of the year, try to figure some shit out and if all still sucks i'll be in america in the cold season i guess.
    Prolly starving or something. Meh.
    Feel free to join me on my quest for a better place.

  • AGirlWorthFightingFor
    19 years ago

    What's so stupid about Australia's values? I mean, besides Steve Irwin. lol. Seriously, what's the problem down there?

    What makes you think America is any better?

  • Nikki
    19 years ago

    i know how you feel, sept i'm being held down by over protective parents, and i am getting out after i pass this school year, i think you should know you have a place to live before you just up and leave, make sure you know what you're gunna do, make sure that you will have someone to help you along in the forign land. email me if you need to talk about this more

  • Kalika
    19 years ago

    As said above, Come to Canada.....although if you think that Bush is the problem with the Us. you won't be much happier here, because the PM we have just kisses Bush's ass....

    Kalika

  • Incognito
    19 years ago

    Call me stupid but I'm running blindly. Nowhere to go, nowhere to stay, no one I know...
    This idea gets worse the more I think about it, and the more I think about it the more I want to go.

  • Selfrejected
    19 years ago

    i live in canada...
    but are economy is ten times better then the states...it'd be a better choice...to come here...

  • Incognito
    19 years ago

    Hmm Canada eh?

    Isn't it really cold in Canada.
    Can't stand the cold.

  • VSambulance
    19 years ago

    ........only in the winter.....lmao