Should i follow my heart, mind or what people say?

how long hav u known this guy?

heart! :)

Listen to your head.

^^

Me? Id wait. Even though it may seem like your waiting forever. i'd still wait.

Yea, he may like you. and if you wait for things to fall into place... you'll have a better understanding of whats going on with that love. And if its true, the wait will be great.. but if its not,... you'll know by waiting.

but honestly. im not trying to preach... if he's a jerk, how do you think he'll be with you? in the long run?

well.. good luck missy.

-courtney

i would say follow your heart i listend to my friends before and made the biggest mistake ever

mattsbabygurl

Well I say fellow your heart it's the best way to go and boys will be boys so just b/c he acks diff. around others means noting and if you know you like him fellow your heart all the way thats what I did and I'm happy

-Becca

head... because your heart just pumps blood... It won't be saying much
:-)

your mind knows only what lays near your heart

Both heart and mind. I followed my heart in the past, but little did i know i was falling into something that was more than i could handle, love that is. Moreover, that one choice contributed to my untimely demise. But that doesn't mean it will happen to you.
The thing is that your heart tells you what you want, but it doesn't take into account the forthcoming consequences. Your heart makes you subjective. Thus, you leave yourself vulnerable to total bliss or emotional devastation.
On the otherhand, your mind keeps you objective and analytical. In this case, you tend to play things safe, but the intense pondering can drive you crazy and really distract you from living your life normally. An example of this case is the act of saying, "he loves me, he loves me not" syndrome.
Lol, ok my point is that, too much of either, that is the heart or mind can be dangerous, not to mention unhealthy. But, perhaps a balance of the two is appropriate. It is up to you.
Take care and good luck!!! 8)

Listen to your heart, it will never lead u wrong.

okay id say none (just to put a spoke in ur wheel lol) id say talk to him, tell him how u feel and ask him how he feels about u and ur r/ship. if hes not willing to leave his gf then forget him. if he does waht to be with u then thats okay but if he been willin to cheat once then be warned he could again
hope this helps
take care
xxxLoUxxx

are you kidding me????????listen i had a friend that was in the same situation, the guy wouldnt tell anyone that he liked her and when they were in public it was like nothing ever happened between them. it has been 3 years since that and we found out that he was just using her. the guy is using you, not to sound mean but dont let some guy take advantage of you. you have to think about the ideal situation that he has right now, he has a girlfriend, he has a girl on the side who he doesnt have to show any affection to unless he really wants to (in private only) and he knows that you care so much about him that he can toy with you by making you feel like he has all kinds of feelings for you but he cant leave his girl right now and you care so much about him that you would go so far as to let this guy use you, then admit that he is using you and then say that it's okay because you really care about him. he has you willing to not admit that you have anything with him. you cant tell me that you dont want to shout off the rooftops when you really care about someone... make sure that person will do the same for you. you know that you deserve it...sorry if that sounded to harsh i'm just trying to look out for you...

think you should follow your heart becuz your head is what tells you what you want , but your heart knows whats good for you.your heart is that small voice that tells you what is right.

your mind and heart agree for the most part, so where's the dilemma?
*~*Soldier Lover*~*