!I cheated* And My first time!

what do you mean it is not cheating if there is distance .. if you guys where going out and you screwed another guy it is cheating it dont matter the distance

Not only did you cheat on him, you lost your virginity to another guy- which is a double strike against you.

I would leave your boyfriend, tell him what you did, tell him he deserves better and that you cant be with him because you screwed up. That's what I would do.

He does deserve better, and if it's so hard to be long distance and you cannot handle it you need to be with someone else regardless.

wow sh!t happens! erm well firstly everyones being really hard on ya n i know u did something wrong but secondly u was honest and admitted it which takes courage...okay what i recommend is really meeting up with ur b/f if poss if not havin a really long chat about it( i know u mite have alredy done this) but u need to discuss with each other y it happen, what u both feel about and where u see the rship goin if anywhere....if u ask me i think it woud prob b best to give each other a bit o time to think it all over and see whether long distance is good for u both...hope this hepls, take care
xxxLoUxxx

I think It's pathetic that you couldn't keep you self from having sex with another man if you were "in love" with your b/f. It doesn't matter long distance or not, cheating is cheating, and losing your virginity to him too! Your the reason men are players and don't want to become attached because we're afraid of shit like this happening, theres nothing you can do to make him feel better, so my advice to you is, NEVER EVER SPEAK TO HIM AGAIN, you'll both be better off!

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ahh wow will you're stupid i know thats cheating don't know where your brain is but its not on this planet b/c reguardless if you are with some one that is 3000 miles away or 3 miles away haveing sex with another person other then your b/f or g/f is cheating