my friend likes my ex

  • Alex
    19 years ago

    Well this happened to me. I went out with a lad, and he was perfect but his lies tore up apart but then he went out with my best friend(SHOCKIN) but they thought i was over him (SSSOOO NOT) and then he dumped her then went out wit my other best friend (SHOCKIN AGEN) then he dicided he didn't know who he liked better out of my two best friends and for three years he has bin going out with one then the other. Tht btw has wreaked my life. Even if your over your ex it still hurts when you see him and sumone u trust compleltly havin fun together without you, and snogging in front of you and stuff. And if ur not over your ex....well it hurts like hell!!! You shudn't have to move on just for the sake of your mate going out with him. Don't force yourself to forget him, you have to move on in your own time.
    Only you can decide whther it wud be ok if ur mate went out with him. Because only u no what he is like.

  • xღxBeckyxღx
    19 years ago

    That kinda happened to me only me and my ex didnt break up because he was lying...to cut a story short when my friends found out 3 in particular began to flirt with him loads over msn. This must of been a few days or so after we split and we'd been together for almost 8 months, so i think using their logic they shuda realised i really liked him. I got SO pissed off with them and found it hard talking to them. I did eventually talk to them and they cooled off a little bit...not totally though. My ex is an asshole, but they keep saying hes wonderful...its up to them now what they think of him i think.
    When i was going thru the above my mum told me that although he was my ex boyfriend and they were my friends i couldn't stop them from doing what they were doing because he wasn't my boyfriend anymore...it sucked balls big time, i had to distance myself from them all...:-(
    Whoa im so sorry this is a long post!!!!

  • xღxBeckyxღx
    19 years ago

    BASICALLY all my babbling means is that i think ex boyfriends should be off limits to friends, and may be this should be reminded to ur friend but say it in a nice way...if shes ur friend she'l understand! Good luck! xox

  • Alex
    19 years ago

    becky i totally agree my life wold be so much better if he was just never in my life anyway because he is a man hore in my eyes!!!!! I HATE HIM (even tho i love him) lol yeah

  • Katie Marie
    19 years ago

    I went out with a friends ex once, and have also had it happen to me. I say get over him because he lied to you, and hopefully she gets hurt as well then you wont feel so bad. Also she isn't a good friend to you then, or you don't rank higher in her life than this boy so I'd say fuck em' both and get a new boy toy.

  • t i f f a n y ♥
    19 years ago

    This is the third post I've read that you wrote about you and this Billy guy. It's kind of annoying. It's not annoying that you are talking about him.. just that you wrote three different posts about it. How about you just write all the info in one post.