How do you get rid of love?

I am very in love with my one of my really good friends. He's one of the greatest people I've ever known. .He's one of the very few people who understands what I'm going through.The problem is he's in love with his best friend and is determined to be with her. I want to tell him how i feel but I don't think he could ever love me as much as he loves her and besides he's going through alot right noe and I don't want to add to it. so how do i get rid of this feeling? Does anyone know?!

You cant just get rid of a feeling you have for someone.

ok, If I can't get rid of it then does anyone have any suggestions about what I should do then?
PLEASE HELP ME!!!I'm desperate.

I think the best thing you can do is just try and move on. I know that it'll be hard but you just have to push your feelings aside and get on with your life. Be the best friend you can for him, help him out with his problems and you never know where it might lead ...
Take care
- Shell

so basically i'm screwed

whats this daisy who'd you screw lol

hey i asked for advice not idiotic remarks shy!!!
j/k lol i love you!!!

NO REALLY WHO'D YOU SCREW

well if you must know...you last night...

ok shy, i'm gonna go drown myself now...talk to ya later...love ya bye

WTF NO YOU AINT

its a tough situation that i havent really been in before...but ill try and give the best advice i can. like people have said above, you cant just give up love for someone, if you really love him, you should tell him, but since he is in some tough times himself, maybe wait a bit. continue to comfort, maybe try to just be his friend for a bit until things arent so rocky and you can tell him how you really feel. i know from situations my friends have had that not being around them or just trying to stop loving them doesnt work. so id probably suggest just to be friends for awhile. but dont try and get rid of those feelings, but dont hide them too long until you explode. like i said, tough situation, but this is probably the best course of action. i hope things turn out okay!

and please dont drown yourself either! things will turn out okay in the end! if he really understands you, you can be friends with him for awhile, just dont do anything like that!

THANK YOU SO MUCH LORIEN!! YOU ARE AWESOME!!!THAT WAS REALLY HELPFUL!!!

glad some one could help you cuz i definatly was no help at all

YA THINK!!!

glad i could be of help. im pretty sure thats the best thing to do in this situation. hope it works for you!

SHUT UP IM STUPID!!!!!!!!!!

you are not stupid you're just...no...wait...nevermind i guess you are...oh o well