A bitter love story...

  • Ria
    19 years ago

    It's been 4 months since I fell in love with my best friend.We really loved each other and had a special relationship.But a month later,I met a whole different kind of boy.He stole my heart from the first sight.So a bitter game begun.Torn feeling,torn hearts,lies,many lies,sadness...Me and my boyfriend soon broke up.My relationship with my new love wasn't perfect.I loved him,but didn't want to lose my ex and best friend.I went back to him,and again there was the same...Today,he broke up with me.He said he loves me so much, but he cannot stand this situation,that it causes too much pain.He said we cannot be friends,either.My whole life is about to change...I don't want to lose him,cause I still love him.Though I'm not IN love...What should I do???

  • hussain
    19 years ago

    i think u need to give ur (ex) time.......
    i think he sounds like he needs space
    i would suggest you keep ur distance
    if u feel like u have doen somthing wrong in this situation make sure he gets an apology..and knows how sorry ur are...

    give him time...and focus on rebuiding the friendship 1st rather than the bf/gf relationship...and it will take time..no doubt u need patience.

  • hussain
    19 years ago

    wow jsut notice ur from greece.. didnt know that there were any greeks here... hope things work out for u and him........

  • Ria
    19 years ago

    So it's been a week from then...No he doesn't even talk to me, and when he does, he insults me. I thought he would do so.He's too selfish...It's bad,cause I relied a lot on him,and I still love him.I hope he'll be okay.I'm building a whole new life now, different friendships and enviroment, I'm far from him...I hope we're not over yet.Just too soon.I was wrong, I said I'm sorry,and not just that.I tried a lot, he knows I want us to be friends...I hope he'll change

  • Rachel E F Allen
    19 years ago

    its hard honey i know. Friends to lovers works well but lovers back to friends has to be handled carefully. I think if you can find something common ground that you used to do together before then you will be fine. I wish you all the luck in the world xx