bestfriend or boyfriend

look guys. my best friend (emily) and my boyfriend (jon) are fighting over something that emily was told that jon said, but he denies it. i'm caught in the middle of it and they're my best friend and boyfriend. whose side should i take if any, and/or what should i do about it? i really need help on this one, and the more the better! feel free to email me

chosenoneva14@yahoo.com

thanks!

Should you even ask this question

To me I wouldn't have to

My girls are number one for sure

Whos shoulder do you think you'll be crying on when he dumps you or something happens...

Never forget where your bread is buttered

Not that i disagree, but i do think that you should really try to find out the truth before you take sides...

chances are the above advice is sound, but guys aren't always the wrong one, we do deserve credit now and then, and hell, he might be right..

~chris

Well usually I dont take sides on things. But if it was a fight with my girlfriend of a friend by far I love my girlfriend so much I would take her side unless I was positive she was wrong, so yea, most likely I would want to go find out which one is right before I make a judgement. but what you should really do if you cant tell which one is right, just ask your boyfriend/girlfriend for the truth, if you ever find out they're wrong, then they dont love you enough to be with you. unless they were protecting you.

-good luck
david

y r u even asking this?!?! BESTFRIENDS COME FIRST

always

i agree w/ ashley..dont take sides til you know the facts and everything behind it. what did he supposedly say anyway? that might help us all give advice...

yea, what did he say... I know it would help me alot

okay. someone emily knows really well told her that jon said all kinds of stuff about sleeping with her and she didnt do anything like that. he denies it, but the person who told her she trusts alot. so, i dont know if he really said or not! thats the story, and theyre really mad at each other.

well do you love your boyfriend? do you trust him?
I've been in a similar sitch and the best thing to do is stay neutral, though by far the most painful on you...
*~*Soldier Lover*~*