*^* confused lil girl*^*

hey i hopw you guys can help me out av just found out the love of my life wants me back, he treated me like shit, then left me... he just got dumped by his g/f, an ppl are sayin i shud give him another chance.i dunno wot to do cos he mite not have changed. plus teachers at school have been pestering my mates cos they fink am bein bullied cos i look rite sad and down but thats onli because am confused an i dont know wot to do, plus my parents dont exactly like my mates they fink my mates are trouble makers, an my mates know this and there slaggin my parents left right and centre because they wont let me out, but i know that my parents care and they dont let me go out clubbin cos am onli 15... my mates cant seem to grasp the concept that wer onli 15 we got our whole lives to do things why do it all now, but they just think my parents are being tite and its really gettin me down cos i know my parents just care for me... help please i dont know what to do about either situation

please please help also please read my poems and tell me what you think please xxx

well, i don't know the guy, so i can't exactly tell you what to do as far as whether to take him back or not, but my advice is to talk to him. either call him or find some way to hang out w/ him (alone) and tell him what you're feeling and that you don't want to get screwed over again, and watch and see how he reacts, and try to get him to talk to you too about how he's feeling, and why he wants you back...because you don't want it to be a rebound thing. i know a lot of guys don't like showing their feelings..but if he really wants you back then he should be able to. then, i suggest that if you decide to get back w/ him..at least wait a few weeks..let things w/ his ex settle down and let him and you both find out what u really want, and work on being friends, and if you still want to get together after all that, then things should work out as best they can. good luck!!!
-Sara

he treatd u like shit..and no girl shud be treated like that

and he got dumped by his other gf...and he deserved that

looks like he doesnt really care in my opinion ..

oh and consider the saying ''a leapord never changes his spots '' (or words to that effect)

once a ''nob always a nob'' u deserve better in my opinion

quoting inmyworld

''because you don't want it to be a rebound thing''

the guy went out with her.. treated her like shit and then went out with another girl ..got dumped ..and now if he wants to get back with her...thats classical reabound ...

to hussain...i know its classical rebound, but i've seen different situations...i dont know the 2 people, i dont know what they're like, or their past relationships...so i cant judge. i gave advice the best i could, w/o taking sides. its ultimately up to her.

to inmyworld

yea i undertand you completely. However from what dani has told me... she wants advice. Ofcourse that guy could be the most repectful guy out there or he could be a complete jerk. But after what dani has told me we only have to go on that.

to summ it up

she was his gf...
he treated her like shit
he got another gf
got dumped
now is single
and its ''people'' that are sayin give him another chance... so its not her heart saying it...

so from what i have heard and read..i say guys like that are not worth it....and dani u deserve better. all the best ... take care

hussain...i definitely see your point, and to dani...he's probably right. especially if its only your friends telling you to go w/ him again..i mean they're not the ones who could get hurt again are they? so how could they decide?

your right inmywolrd is ok to call u IMW for short ? lol

also ur mates diss ur parents ? thats not nice at all ...i would atleast want my mates to respect my parents and respect whatever dicision they make.

Dont let no 1 dicitate ur life not even me.......

the choice is yours.

yeah lol IMW is cool...and yeah, parents can be unreasonable sometimes, because we're all human, and especially to teens, but they do have your best interests at heart...i mean they're not the ones telling you to go for something that could get you hurt...but ultimately, again, its your decision, go w/ the flow, boys arent everything, and the world won't end if something goes wrong, things usually work themselves out in someway or another, whether it takes time or not...good luck!!

IMW i clicked on ur profile to read ur poems but there was non there :*( who took her poems>? !! :(

hussain..if u read my profile, i havent gotten my poems up yet..and for one reason...plaguerism (sp?) is common on this site...pm me if u wanna see some of them..i mostly write poems in song form, because after a while i write music to them w/ my guitar and stuff so ya.

i pm'd u lol :P

i pm'd u back.

i replied to ur email :P