whats wrong with me? what did i do wrong?

okay im very comfortable with my body...you know im not afraid to show some skin and be naked because i was always taught to never be embarrased about your body...i mean thats how i was raised. and for me not being afraid so expose myself i get called a slut and a skank and a whore and anyother name you can think of....but i've only had sex with one guy like i dont know maybe 3 times so how does that make me a slut? seriously what did i do wrong? i dont get it

other girls get jelous. They may find you as a threat, you may prettier then they are, but mostly because they don't have high self-esteam like you do.

so you've done nothing wrong at all.

You shouldn't be embarrased about your body, but you should have some respect for yourself and wear decent clothing. The number of times you've had sex is obviously not the reason people are calling you a skank. Wear some clothes.

alright...thanks im just really confused....actually in my opinion im not that pretty guys just like me cuz im not afraid to do stuff......and actually i dont have that high of self-esteem....i just pretend to be happy so i dont make a scence

i do wear clothes but i mean like im not afraid to wear stuff that most girls who are really not comfortable with their body's wouldn't wear i mean its not like i walk around in tube tops and mini skirts all the time

Well when I was in high school
streaking was in. nobody freaked
out we all just laughed. It only
happened a few times with boys
and girls. But also my girlfriend
back then flashed a booby shot
at a truck driver once. So, if you
ask me I say you haven’t done
nothing wrong. Some people like
it and like Jacki said some are jealous.

Did you flash someone or just wearing
Sexy clothes?
If it’s just your clothes then they have the
problem not you.

TV adds are full of girls in underwear and
bikinis and that’s not being a slut. How about
nude beaches in some other countries it’s
normal to be on the beach topless.
Live life feel sexy girl your young and alive.

hahahhahah
HAHAHAHAHAHAH

o lordy this is a stupid question.

Ok Emmerz, don't try to use an excuse like "I was taught not to be ashamed of your body" to dress like a slut.
If you dress to the point where you reveal cleavage, that's not being comftorble with your body, that's asking for sexual attention.

If you wear revealing clothes, it doesn't matter how many times you've had sex, people are going to make assumptions about you and have an impression of a girl with a sad life, no respect for herself, therefor dresses like a slut to get guys' attention.

Theres what you did wrong:)

LMAO!!!

"lordy"

HAHAHAHAHA

That's great pink...

"It's your age that makes you a slut... 15"

- Thats the biggest load of crud i've ever heard.

Wear what you want - Act how you want. Who gives a fundamental what people say or think about you. If you are confident with your body then flawnt it.

When I was 12 I was really upset because these girls said I was too fat to wear the clothes I was wearing, my clothes were stupid ("where do you think you're going, a disco?") and I was so full of myself because I wore make up...

I was really upset because, i didn't wear make up, i was wearing jeans and sparkly pink tshirt (I was 12!) and i had been recovering from an eating disorder so I HAD to put on weight!

teens are very very cruel. And jealousy IS a huge part of it. I don't know why they were jealous of ME but, i guess they were... looking back.

...you guys how can you say girls are "jealous" of her if you've never even met her....

for all you know this girl is an obese, fugly, girl covered in body zits and facial hair.

just a thought

The type of clothes you wear how does that make you a slut, whore, skank etc etc??? If you ask me people now adays throw that word around way to much...example;

"Omg look at that girl, look whats shes wearing what a slut"

I am sure somewhere down the lines of our lives we have thought it...i know i have but truth of the matter is it is WRONG!!! To judge someone on the clothes they wear is judgeing a book by it's cover....so you wear revealing clothes BIG DEAL!! i dont think anyone has the right to call you a slut because you like to show a little skin. And hey, i respect that you can walk out with some sexy clothes and feel great...takes a lot of guts to look in the mirror and say "I look damn good".

Also, i find it halarious because look at the image that society had protrayed for us women...if your not a size 0 your over weight, or if you dont look or act a certain way your out of line well you know what i say....f---- that!

And if you were raised to be comftorable with your body then GO YOU!!!

JUST A THOUGHT

who cares if she is obese, fugly as you put it, or a girl covered in facial hair and zits....does that give yah the right to look down on her and question if other girls are jealous....Why is it we question the appearances of others but not ourselves?...so what if she was all those thing....who cares its not our bisness and yet is she still wears clothes like that even thou she looks the way she does....I WOULD GIVE HER A HAND...confident enough to go out in the world like that.

It's not your fault. The way you dress is your RIGHT...and if someone decides to judge you before they know you f---- them...who cares what others think anyways...you just be you and let those girls call you down, clearly your better then that if you are able to still be the way you are. Hold yah head up...Some girls are bitches...and will do everything in their power to make you feel like crap...lifes to short to care what someone thinks about you.

JUST A THOUGHT

take care always
Scooby

Once again u posted the same thing in 2 different places! What's wrong with me? What did I do wrong? Well lets see u have made this post in 2 different places just like u did ur fake suicide attempt. I think maybe there is something more wrong with u besides just dressing like a hootch and wondering why everyone thinks that u are a whore! I thought u would be in the hospital a couple of weeks from what ur "sister" lol told us!

hahah O dear, dear Scooby. how many things were wrong with what you just stated?

"ahem" let me begin.

"The type of clothes you wear how does that make you a slut, whore, skank etc etc??? If you ask me people now adays throw that word around way to much...example;

"Omg look at that girl, look whats shes wearing what a slut"

Well OF COURSE people are going to make that statement. If you dress asking for that kind of attention, people are going to make assumptions about you. Doesn't matter if it's right or wrong, it's just the way it is. So when you dress for that attention and get a negative outlook, don't complain.

"takes a lot of guts to look in the mirror and say "I look damn good".
...That's not guts Scooby, that's vanity.

"nd if you were raised to be comftorable with your body then GO YOU!!! "
There is indeed a huge difference between being comftorble and being haughty.

"who cares if she is obese, fugly as you put it, or a girl covered in facial hair and zits....does that give yah the right to look down on her and question if other girls are jealous...."

hahahah ok Scooby, doesn't that defeat the whole perpose of what I just said? If she's gugly obese facial haired chick, girls are not gonna be jealous of her.

"so what if she was all those thing....who cares its not our bisness"
Hmmm considering that she started this forum, she's pretty much asking us to make it her busness.

"and yet is she still wears clothes like that even thou she looks the way she does....I WOULD GIVE HER A HAND..."

so...if you saw an obese person wearing nothing but a tube top and short shorts you would congradulate them?
...too many things wrong with that to explain.

"It's not your fault. The way you dress is your RIGHT..."

hahahaha

hahHAHAHAHAHAH

Scooby, it's common knowledge, if you dress like a slut and you get called one, IT IS YOUR FAULT

derr

annd you keep mentioning the word "right", yes she has a right to dress like she has no respect for herself, but that also means girls have a right to call her a slut:)

"Hold yah head up..."

I would find that hardly worth doing if your dressing like someone who only has sex to offer.

Ok, there you go
tata

HAHAHAHAHA

Pink that was all too good...

I love it

if ur comfortable wiv ur body ans urself, ignore all the harsh comments.

i get tht ALL THE TIME from mates, im known 4 wearing minis all the time and i dont give a shit! lol coz ateast i have the guts to wear clothes like that and they dont!

i dont listen to harsh comments, i wear and act how i wanna act, and it shows in my personality, if ppl see tht YOUR ok with it, THEY'LL be ok with it

xxxxxxxxxx

umm, Georgi,

***buzzing noise*** WRONG

dressing in minis doesn't show 'guts' wtf are you thinking? half of the effing nation wears minis. not to mention that dressing that way is the exact opposite of courage. Dressing respectivly so that people will RESPECT YOU is a sensible and honorable thing to do.
(not that minis really bother me...depends on how scandelous the mini is.)

"if ppl see tht YOUR ok with it, THEY'LL be ok with it"
errrrrrrrrrrrrr! wrong again

When people see your ok with flaunting yourself, they're going to think you don't think very highly of your personal value.

How do you all manage to make yourselves look like an ass, and pink is the only one with some common sense?

This is so pathetic...

yes Nobody I agree:)

he was agreeing with you, and u then agreed with him tht u agreed with urself

sad

Your attempt at making her feel foolish was sad...

Just to clarify something...

I don't think anyone would call someone a skank/slut/whore because they're jealous of the persons 'Image'.

Thats kind of retarded.

Jealous of how they look or the attention they get... happens all the time.

haha pink u rock. i agree completely. i could be insanely proud of my gun, but u think if people saw it they would be just a little uneasy? same with people seeing u dressed like that and saying ur a slut.

hahaah...Georgi's comment.

Oooo I do love you all in here

Nobody, Yasmin, and whoever suggested she's just a skank, I think I'd go crazy over completly ignorant and utterly stupid comments if it weren't for you guys
:):)

Can't wait to see who else gets riled up
(hope you guys stick around)

Babyblew: You are "kind of retarded"

Have you ever been in a situation with a bunch of boys are around you and then a beautiful girl walks by and all the boys turn and look... and out of spite and jealousy you call her a whore/tramp/bitch/skank/(whatever to your liking)?

I'm sure you've had those feelings of jealousy before and to make the "whore/tramp/bitch/skank/(whatever to your liking)" seem less beautiful you call her a name that dishonors her...

Image as to high school, is as knowledge, to a philosopher...

So of course someones ego/feelings will be hurt when all attention is placed on one's beauty and not on personality...

What people are willing to say about that person is up to them... but most are not kind about it...

spelled: where.... (before situation)

self correction is bothersome...

(Nobody: note the edit button to the left)
hehe

And yes I agree with you. Though I think this particular situation is entirely different, and people cannot say that other girls are jealous of her on the account that they've never seen her, it is true that girls call each other 'sluts' or other insults just out of spite.
I've notice a couple times that guys do it too when a girl turns them down, and they use the insult 'slut' to conceal their embarassment and keep their egos secure
But yea, most of the time it's the ladies*

Why thank you...

Guys do happen to do that also... Do not think that girls are the only victims of jealousy though...

I have been called a slut many times in my life... lmao...

Must be all those jealous guys huh?

hahah I've never heard of a guy bein called a slut, that's alarmingly amusing

yes, they must be jealous of your incredible sexiness (I am assuming)

Well if you mean ASS-uming.... then you are right on!!!

are you and this guy married? cuz if not then, i'm sorry that puts u into the "slut" category. they way you dress has nothing to do with it, it's how you act hun. Sorry to brake it to you.

sry just read the top of that, obviously ur not married hun ur 15! 15 is way to young to lose ur virginity. 15 is way to young to be "flaunting" ur body. my god, can't ppl dress friggin their age anymore?!

exxxxxxxxactly.