OMG! YOU HAVE TO SEE THIS!

now that i have your attention.. lol sorry..

okay... this is the story: My ex-boyfriend (lets call him TR) and his cousin (lets call him JU) called me. Now JU was going out with my best best best friend (um... HA) They went out for a year and a half. So did me and TR. Then yesterday, JU broke up with HA. And like a month ago i broke up with TR. TR started going out with my friend Kalon. But I didn't care because I don't like TR anymore. Then TR and JU called me and said JU wanted to go out with me! The thing is, hearing TR on the phone... made me like him all over again. But I have liked JU for A LONG TIME! But I said no, because I knew that HA was heartbroken still. I think I'm in love with JU... what should I do:-/ I can't jepeordize HA and my friendship. But I really like him.. any advice?

have you talked to HA about JU? I mean, does (did) she know you love him?
*~*Soldier Lover*~*

yea i talked to HA about JU. she said she doesnt care if i go out with him... but i KNOW she does, cuz she was crying when she said it... and i felt SOOOOOO bad for her. i don't know what to do!

I think you should talk to Ha and explain that u let him down but you think you really like him. See what she says to that. If what she says still makes u uncomfortable then don't do it but you have to let Ha know whats up especially if she's ur best best best friend.

good luck
- pimpgurl

yea i agree with pimpgurl ^^^ i think u need to tell HA how u feel about JU but tell her that u told him no. if she seems relieved then dont do anything wi JU but tell him u cant be with him because of ur friendship with HA ...make sure they both understand how u feel.
good luck and take care
xxxLoUxxx

:-/ I had to read that like 3 times to get it right... these "JR, HA, UJ" or w/e were hard to understand! lol

but im not very good at relationships :P

NEVER let a guy come between a friendship.

EVER.

First, if you really like the guy, then i suggest you wait untill your friend is well off, comepletly over the guy, then make sure you tell her and ASK HER PERMISSION

i know you guys might say she doesn't need "permission" to go out with a guy, but really put yourself in the friends situation.

So if by the time your friend is over this guy you still happen to have feelings for him talk to her, tell her how long you've liked him, then ask her if she would be bothered if you went out with him.

DO NOT
date him behind her back, or tell her what he has been saying to you. i know you might think it's wrong to keep secrets from her, but she's in a fragile state right now and the last thing she'll want to hear is that the guy who broke her heart is now after her best friend.

Bring out everything in a month or two when she's over the relationship.

tata

dontrisk a friendship i did that and i've ended up wit no boy and no friends

sooooo

I say as long as your being honest with everyone involved (because I still couldn't get it after the third read without making notes) then go for it. You only get one shot at life and better to live to regret doing something and all that xx

If he is making you even contemplate breaking your friendship or at least risk it, forget about him, and just go in completely the other direction and find a different guy who has nothing to do with anyone you know