Big Problem* =(

Hey, lol guys are weird thats an understatement! The same happened to me actually...well it was similar, i was a little older than you, i was 14 years old and totally besotted with my ex boyfriend. We had been together for 8 months and he was my first serious boyfriend and i thought we were gonna last for a long time.
Then one night he says he doesnt wanna girlfriend anymore, he just wants to be friends, but still wants to have sex with me. I was SO confused and upset and hurt, and he took AGES to get over, but i can say I am now, and i'm with a really great guy now and he respects me and i know THIS is the real thing.
The best thing to do is to keep yourself busy with other things and try not to think of this guy. My ex messed me up and nearly came between me and my boyfriend.
Your life may seem crap right now and not worth living but i promise you, something good will come out of this all, maybe you wont get back together maybe you will, but eventually something really good will happen to you :-)
If you ever wanna talk about this just let know! xxx Take care and good luck! xxx

*clearz throat* ok done!
ok first of all honey let me tell you a quick yet TRUE story about one of my very close friends ...
she had a bf who really and i mean REALLY loved her but he was so in love with her that he couldnt help but be scared of the thought of getting in TOO deep and then ending up hurt. he told her "IM SORRY I DONT LIKE YOU ANYMORE..IM TIRED OF YOU" we hated him so much she cried for months for him but little did we kno he did so too... anyways what im trying to tell you is that maybe he broke up with you because he didnt want you to hurt him or maybe he thought you were just too good to be true and that anyone would be lucky to have you..sweetie, youre 12 and im 15 and i still think im too young to be in serious relationships even tho i feel like i have found THE ONE. well i wish you the best and dont worry about it you still have your whole life to look forward to many more guys will come and yea i kno how hard it is to get over your first love im still not over mine because your feelings for that person are going to be there regardless!!!! take care hun.
love always,
marlene a.k.a BuTtErKuP