Should I be with a girl that has cheated on me?

  • Brookeღ
    19 years ago

    Move on! U are to young to waste ur life on someone who obviously doesn't care for u or have respect for herself. I can say from past experience I wasted so many years in a relationship waiting for that change that never came along. 9 years of my life I put into it. I feel once a cheater always a cheater! She knows u put up with it so I think she will just continue to cheat as long as u allow it. Just my opinion. Take Care and Good Luck!

  • Samantha lynn
    19 years ago

    I agree...if you stay with her she's just going to keep cheating becuase you've stuck with her through it in the past. I'm not gonna lie and say it's easy to break up with someone even knowing that they cheated and betrayed you but it's what has to be done...TRUST ME. I just recently had to break up with my bf cause he cheated.

  • hussain
    19 years ago

    shes a ..........dare i say it.....i wont...... move on mate......shes not worth it.......shes a ... oops i almost said it again......

  • Jackie Bilson
    19 years ago

    NO. I don't even have to read the rest of your post. Forget her. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Don't let her treat you like a fool twice.

  • t i f f a n y ♥
    19 years ago

    No. Never be with someone who has cheated on you. If they cheated on you then they don't really love you or want to be with you.

  • Steven
    19 years ago

    move on dude!.... cause that like the best thing u can do... and she gotta be hot to make out with so many people o.O

  • Tiller
    19 years ago

    If she cheats on you once..i can see why you can forgive...2 times...eh..kinda hard..3 times JUST MOVE ON!...if you dont she'll prolly just cheat on you again

  • tastethis2232
    19 years ago

    move on though it may be hard it is only going to put more stress on your heart because she just has a ____ nature she wont stop look for love elsewhere

  • SatinRisse
    19 years ago

    It's gonna be hard, because she's your first love, and you did a lot of first with her. I still miss my first sometimes but I've moved on. It look me about 2 years, and a lot of heartbreaks, but here I am now, happier then EVER, even with that first guy.

    It's gonna be hard. I'm not going to tell you it wont. But the harder thing is going to be to sit back, and let her keep walking all over you. Yeah you feel great when you're with her, and you love her, and she makes you melt, but how does that compair to the pain that she's caused you, and the pain yet to come because like everyone is saying....once a cheater, always a cheater.

  • B4BY BLU3 X
    19 years ago

    SatinRisse is right. You may love her and not want to lose her, but how can you go on loving someone thats hurt you so many times? She obviously isnt sorry!! But i don agree with "once a cheater, always a cheater" that isnt necessarily true. It just depends on the person.
    But however, this girl obviously isnt going to stop hurting you is she? As hard as it may be, you really must move on. She has hurt you too many times for you to just let her do it again.
    For me, it took me more than almost 3years to get over my first love. And even now i still wonder whether im over him or not.
    It will never be easy getting over someone you love, but think about it, if she has hurt you then it should be abit easier?
    Focus on her bad points, and think to yourself how much you hate her...Even if you dont hate her, just try and get yourself to believe that you do. Wish you the best of luck. xx

  • Eve
    19 years ago

    omg, what do u think u should do? I'll tell u what i think. I think that u should break up with her because even though u lost ur virginity with her it doesn't mean u made a commintment with her. that's what i think.

  • The Angel of Secrets
    19 years ago

    leave her