Torn between 2 homes

  • Jenny Sys
    19 years ago

    People I really need some help....
    Well on Christmas day my Father kicked me out of home, (nasty I know) but we haven't seen each other in a good couple of months. I am living with my Mother at present and have made a home for myself here.
    I went to visit my Father yesterday to talk about a future, to see him, my Step-mother and my siblings. Today I went to chat with him again and he asked if I wanted to move back in with him. I really want to because that is where my family is, however, we have our disagreements and as I said I've made a home for myself here.
    Please help me people.

  • Jenny Sys
    19 years ago

    Well actually they live about 15 minutes away from each other!!! The only thing is though that I am planning to go to university in a few months and the one I want to go to is about 200 miles away.

  • Katie Marie
    19 years ago

    Well since your father kicked you out in the first place who's to say he wont do it again? Also if you and him fight why would you want to go back. Yeah your family is there, but your Mum is also family. You can visit your siblings anytime. I just think it's stupid for you to go back and live with a man who says he's your Dad, but first chance he get's he throws you out. And on Christmas. Also you made a new home with your Mum. I know who I'd choose but it's your decision not mine.

    *Katie*

  • Jenny Sys
    19 years ago

    I live in the west midlands.

    Well yeah he did kick me out, but I think that he has now realised that he made a mistake. Also my Mum treats me like a worthless person, she only took me in because she felt that she should do because she felt that it was her responsibility and not a pleasure.

  • Jenny Sys
    19 years ago

    I think that I will talk to my Mum when she gets home and see what she wants me to do. But if she wants me to go then I will be more than happy to!!!

    Where to you live then?

  • Jenny Sys
    19 years ago

    Well just thought that i would let everyone know, that i have spoken to my mum about it all, she says that it is a bit sudden, and im just going to have a day of rest tomorrow to think about it all, also to see my sister and see how she feels if i were to move back in.

  • Jenny Sys
    19 years ago

    Well my Dad has told me that I can go round on Friday in the afternoon, and I have decided that I will see how accepted I feel and how much of a family it feels and then make my decision from there.

    Thank you for taking your time to listen to me. x