My friend died on saturday....

  • Just Ariel
    19 years ago

    and to make it worse he was my boyfriends BEST friend,now he's depressed...does anyone know how i can help him? I feel like a horrible girlfriend because all i can do is watch when i see him cry...

  • t i f f a n y ♥
    19 years ago

    I don't think there is anything else you could do besides be there for him.

    I'm sorry if I ain't much help with this, I've never had anyone close to me die before.

  • Lecrissa
    19 years ago

    Hon all you can do is be there for him, And listen when hes ready to talk. Be patient is the best i can say.

  • Angie
    19 years ago

    I am terribly sorry for your loss. But all you can do is be there for him, hold him, hug him, wipe his tears.........

    He needs all the support he can get right now. It'll take some time to get over the loss, but he will be fine. Just remember that your friend will always be in your heart and you have your memories too.

  • Eibutsina
    19 years ago

    Just be there

    Listen and don't push him to talk about it

    He'll talk to you in his own healing time :o)

    Goodluck your in my prayers

  • FTS Miles
    19 years ago

    Eirisa said it best. Just be there for him, and let his needs guide both of you in terms of what you do (within reasonable limits, obviously). Good luck and much peace....

  • Rachel E F Allen
    19 years ago

    All you can do when someone you love hurts is put your arms around them, tell them you are there, let them deal with things how they need to and try to be the strength for them to draw on. I wish you all the love in the world. Love Rach xx