krysten
19 years ago
hey i just wanted to let everyone here know that my grandma died and i don't know how to deal with it. would some one please tell me how to act and how to deal with it i was really close to my grandma ever since her annyerism she had 11 years ago i've been there helping my mom take care of her and then one day after my grandpa died she left b/c she thought my mom kicked her out of our house well actually i think my uncle and her sisters made her think tha i don't think she actually ever belifed it. but i didn't see her for along time and now i really miss her. I mean she was the first one i told out of my family that i was bi and she really didn't care and she talked to my g/f who still is my g/f at the time she talked to her alot so i have no idea what to do if someone would please help. |
Tasha
19 years ago
that is really really sad. but my dad died 2 years ago, and it isn't much fun for people to feel sorry for you, is it? nope. but find a way of coping with it, this is something you'll never get over, and the pain may lessen after time as you realize she's in a better place. god takes ONLY the best of us right? and he needed another angel. your grandma was probably the perfect lady! you could punch a pillow (nothing living, or hard surfaced, you could get hurt) cry, scream into a pillow, or one of my favorites- SPRINT around your house as many times as you can until your COMPLETELY out of energy and just DROP to the ground and lay there until you catch your breath. i hope i helped! |
Brookeღ
19 years ago
I am so sorry for ur loss! I know when my grandpa died it felt like I died too! What I did was get out all of the pictures I had of him. Then I made a photo album with just pictures of him. That helped me remember all of the good times that we shared. U never really forget them u just have to learn to deal with death. It's a hard thing to do! Take Care of yourself! Brooke |