3 or 4 girls at a time

Maybe he doesn't even know the REAL man he is. If he was great while you were together then a "h*e" when you split, he could just be one of the many confused guys who doesn't know what he wants.

Its hard not to want to be with an ex you loved, when you see them again after you break up. Best advice I have for you is to give it time to heal first, before you see him again.