Fire From Within

  • *~*Soldier Lover*~*
    19 years ago

    I'm in the weirdest situation..... I love my boyfriend with all my heart and soul and he returns the feeling.
    But lately I feel he's been taking me for granted, like that I'll always be there for him. So he's forgetting it's a two way street and I need him to be here for me too. He's been really busy lately and we haven't talked much...I want his full attention before I bring the issue up. The reason I started this post was to ask, I've been thinking about breaking up with him to give him time to see if I'm what he really wants. This would kill me from the inside out letting him go, but there are times I feel it would be for the best. Make no mistake, I love him more than anything and don't want to hurt him ever, that's why I'm asking for all of y'alls advice...
    Any comments, help, support would be appreciated, thank you all.
    *~*Soldier Lover*~*

  • *~*Soldier Lover*~*
    19 years ago

    Very supportive bunch we have I see. =)
    *~*Soldier Lover*~*

  • Bret Higgins
    19 years ago

    relationships are like a door, they swing both ways.

    You say you havent talked much lately so you have yourself to blame just as much as him.

    Talk to him be honest and open and DO NOT expect him to know what he should be doing, TELL HIM.

    Oh, and breaking up with him will give the impression that he isn't good enough. But the choice is yours.

  • EpithetPoet
    19 years ago

    yeah i'd have to agree with higgins. you should talk to him about it first.
    -A

  • *~*Soldier Lover*~*
    19 years ago

    Thank you Bret for your words of wisdom, they fell on listening ears (eyes in this case). I appreciate you taking time to give me advice. And yes, it is partly my fault we haven't talked much.. I hadn't thought of that.. thanks
    *~*Soldier Lover*~*

    (this is not a closing remark, I welcome any other comments)