More than friends!!!

  • (@~~BabyC~~@)
    19 years ago

    Just a few days ago I told my bestfriend that I have fillings for him that are more than friends. He told me that he like me too, and we kissed for the first time. I've known him since I was in the 1st grade(I'm a Freshmen now he's a Jr). We really got close a little more than a year ago. We talk about everything even our relationships with other poeple. I trust B.J. alot and I know he trust me too, I mean you can't help but to trust your bestfriend. The problem is I don't want this to turn out like all my other relationships. I don't want to lose my bestfriend. Should I stay "Just Friends" or do u think i should risk it all and become "More Than Friends".

    please help!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • (@~~BabyC~~@)
    19 years ago

    Someone please answer i need help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Jenny Sys
    19 years ago

    I find that when you are VERY good friends with someone that will always be there, so even if you decide to be more than friends, if that goes all wrong then you can easily just go back to being friends.

  • (@~~BabyC~~@)
    19 years ago

    Thank U for the advice I really needed help. If anyone has anything else they want to add please fill free to.

  • Carlee Ann
    19 years ago

    I would just talk to him about it. Tell him you don't want to risk losing your friendship and want to know if you will stay friends if things don't work out romantically. Follow your heart, chica... it is honest! Good luck!
    Car

  • (@~~BabyC~~@)
    19 years ago

    Thank you all for your support. It anyone has any other advice please add it.

  • (@~~BabyC~~@)
    19 years ago

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  • Sarah-Louise
    19 years ago

    I was in the same situation a while ago. I fell for my best friend. I eventually told him I liked him and he said he liked me too...but after a while it got weird and we just stayed good friends. If he's a true friend of yours hun, then you'll never seperate! If you were to get together and it were to fall apart, then he should be able to put that behind him and recover the friendship you had before. Go with your heart...give it a go! Good luck! Sarah-Lou x x x