i have a big dilema!!!please help

ok me and my girlfriend amy have been going out for about 2 years we live very far apart so when i go over there its a 7 hour journey but i get to stay there a few nights with her(not allowed to share the same bed though)when we first started going out we were madly in love but recently she seems to be getting angry at me alot and i think our light is fading so heres my question
1)should i leave her and ask if we can be friends
2)hope its a phase and wait
3)say that were on a break for a bit

thats just it though when i ask her why she's getting angry at me she just says i'm not angry

Maybe she has lots of stressful things going on in her life and feels that you not physically being there for her all the time is not enough... just a stab in the dark here...
*~*Soldier Lover*~*

thank you soldier lover for your opinion

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please darling dont give up. my last relationship ( 9 months ago) was long distance and the same thing happend to us...except we called it quits.

now every day of my f-ing life i regret it.

"it always means more when its gone"

I'm going to have to agree with Alex here as well....

A long-distance relationship needs to have communitcations. If she tells you that she's not angery, me being a girl who uses that a lot to avoid a really big fight, she is most likely hiding something.

Don't pressure her to tell you anything. Just keep talking to her like nothing is wrong. It helps to cheer her up. Then ask her if there is anything that she wants to talk about. Ask her about her family, her friends, herself, anything. Just tell her that you miss her, and that you wish you could be with her, and really show her that you care.

Just....talk. About anything and everything.

I'm sure that by doing that, you can get whatever is wrong with her, out of her...at least....that works for me and my boyfriend.

If the relationship is not important enough to you to keep it, then don't.

If you have to ask, you already know.

Mistake, I really don't think you should do any of your 3 options. I think you should try talking to her about things. Ask her why she getting angry at you, ask her what you could do to make things better. By talking about things instead of arguing would make things alot easier for you both to sort out. If you really love her you would respect her needs and talk to her about it. Wish you the best of luck. xx

Aw bless ya Cindy...Thats really sad!! I do know what its like to be in love with someone you dont see often. I think it could easily be one of the hardest things in life that people have to go through...To love someone and constantly be missing them. remember when I loved this guy who lived an hour away from me, i used to cry everynight because i missed him so much. i cut myself and everything. made me so depressed. but now im over him...I realise that he wasnt wort it at all. he really wasnt worth a single minute of my time. i look at my scars and regret...So yer Cindy I know how you feel. stay strong hun.