HELP NEEDED

Linz,

Although, in my opinion, 11 years is quite an age difference, I think that if you really think that there could be something between you and this guy, then you should meet with him again. I feel a obligation to warn you that, although this guy seems nice at the moment, he could become a real creep. So, you should keep some barriers up between the two of you until you are sure that this guy is genuine. Good luck!

Timothy Bledsoe

Once you become an adult I don't think age makes a difference. I have always dated guys that are younger which is usually looked at different because I am a female. Of course they are of age. I have dated guys 8 years younger. For me it all depends on the level of their maturity. If the guy is older people don't really question it. Unless it's some old guy ready to kick the bucket. I feel if there is a connection go for it! You have nothing to lose. Just make sure he wants to be with you for the right reason.

depends how old you are.

Alright I just saw that your 18. Umm, I don't think this is a HUGE nono, but I definetly don't side with it.

So he's 29? Hmm, well for one thing, I wouldn't go for it. There are plenty of "really nice guys" out there much, much closer to your age.

If you absolutly have to be with this guy, try it, but odds are he's just looking for a young piece of ass (no matter how nice he seems)

Just because he's really nice doesn't mean he's one in a million. If you were going to date someone 11 years older than you, he should be a hell of a special guy.

if it was up to me i wouldent because he probaly just want to have sex wit you then live because if yer a virgin its alot better for the guys because they like pressure and a virgin vagina is not yet streched so it will give them more pleasure!! well thts my opinion :D

Well my brother and his wife are 10 years apart...she's 25, and he's 35. They seem to be really happy but at times they fight a lot because she still gets really jealous if he even glances at another girl.

My advice is not to meet him again unless you can bring a friend. If you met him in a club, or anywhere really, then you have no idea what he wants, and what kind of a person he is. And like that old quote....there's safty in numbers.

Gandalf and SatinRisse both give good and valid points. You have some excellent advice here. Don't be afraid to use some of it.

Linz, I think if you really do like him that much then just go for it girl! Age is nothing but a number when you truely love someone. And I should know because I am in love with someone 20 years older than me!! Go for it girl, you have nothing to lose!! Take care and good luck xx

EMMA!!!! YOU'RE 15....HE'S 35....

EWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!

AGAIN!!!