I Need Help!! In love, dodgey situation!! :'(

Hey there people, I really need your help. I am 15 years old and I am madly in love with a 35 year old. He is married and has 4 kids and I am mates with all his kids. I think he knoes how I feel about him and I know he feels the same. He tells me he loves me and all that, and he doesn't really get on with his wife anymore, they are always arguing and she annoys him. I just don't know what to do, and I don't know what I want to do. Please help.

wow....... I for like the 2nd time in my life.. am speechless.... this is incredible.. this guy is old enough to be your father!! and is still married??
D@mN girl.....
*~*Soldier Lover*~*

EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW......

Sorry sweetie but see we like to call that kind of a guy, a pedophile....and that's....just....ew....sorry sweetie....no advice from me except to STICK TO YOUR OWN FREAKIN AGE!!!!!

*Throws up....repeatedly*

SatinRisse, thanks for you very kind comment NOT!!

I know u can't help who u fall in love with, but u have to think about what is best for everyone. think about his children. how would they feel about a dad who left their mother for a 15 year old girl??you can't get involved with this man. I'm sorry. I hope you find someone who is more suited to you. then you'll realise that this man is not worth all the bother a relationship would bring.good luck xxx

i know he says he loves you...but does he? Please be careful, he may have kids but he cud still be a paedophile. Its not natural to fall in love with someone your kids age, im sorry. I would find somebody your own age - just to be safe
xXx

IF for some reason he ever left his wife, and his wife found out about you, and that you're ONLY 15....do you have any idea the law suits, the jail time, the child support, all that shit that that guy will have do because he's some freaky pedophile?

That's child mulastation, even IF you gave him consent. He would be going away for a LONG time, and lose his wife, and his kids because he wouldn't be allowed by them EVER again.

I'm sorry, maybe you can't help who you fall in love with, but seriously, I think you're just plan sick, and if you're not joking about this situation to see who you can get attention from? Then maybe you should go see a doctor or something, because sweetheart, you have some real problems, and don't mean the one that you're trying to get help for.

*Shudders*

No problem about my last comment. Get use to it! I'm not gonna stop and I don't care who yells at me about it! You're in trouble, and you need help.

Honey is it love or lust?
It doesn't matter what his home lifes like. If he does any thing with you now it would be like messing with his own kids. In alaska we call that baby raper. Its uncool to mess with a friends family like that at your age he** at any age. Its also unfair to you in the long run. You need to experance life a little to find out if you realy care for him in that way. If in say ten years you still do then by all means go for it. But thats in ten years. In my experance married men who are unhappy in their marriage will look to younger wemen to use not to keep. So my sugestion is to look ealce where for romance before you louse your mates as you put it.