I need help with my girlfriend

  • Brookeღ
    19 years ago

    I don't want you to take this the wrong way. I was dating a guy for 2 1/2 years. I ended up feeling distant because I felt he was smothering me. I was engaged too so that made it even harder. I just thought I needed to have some space. I cared about him but at the same time I felt I couldn't breath. He did everything he could I had roses delivered every week to the point where I don't even like to get flowers anymore. He was a sweet guy and I think he would make a good husband but just not for me. I don't know your situation so I could be way off track but do you feel she might need some space?

  • Brookeღ
    19 years ago

    Have you talked to her about this? If you don't get a straight answer I woudn't keep trying so hard to please her. She might end up taking advantage of the situation. I hope you don't get hurt. I would take it day by day and take the approach of just talking. I would also see how she reacts if you back off and not cater to her as much. You might find she will get jealous. She might start to think about your relationship and figure out she doesn't want to lose you. I hope this will help! Good luck to you! Brooke

  • Brookeღ
    19 years ago

    Keith I am sorry but when a girl says it's just her you need to ler her go. She has lost interest and it's easier to let go now because if you hang onto false hope it will get harder for you. I know that's not what you want to hear but trust me I'm a female and it's a common excuse. Take Care and good luck!

  • Ele
    19 years ago

    maybe shes upset about something completely different. talk to her and ask her if shes ok
    if she does need space then agree to give her some.

  • Kaitlin Kristina
    19 years ago

    You have to ask her, maybe she is just losing interest.

    Talk to her, dont just say "what's wrong baby?" Really sit her down and ask her directly, "why are you being distant with me? I love you and I want you to be honest with me because I want to help you feel better."