i love him... but we split

i dont know what 2 do... me n my ex been split up 4 almost 3 months now n i still love him w/all my heart... and i know hes sleeping w/his new g/f.... how do i compete w/that? me n him slept 2gether.. and now it makes me think i never really mattered to him. bbut i love him and he loves me... he even told me... i dont know what 2 do...

someone please help

these tears jus wont stop

Hun, I don't mean to be harsh, but you need to move on!
If he is sleeping with his new girlfriend, then signs show that he doesn't love you... if he did, why is he doing that? Furthermore, you shouldn't have to compete with that.

Don't cry over him, move on and remember the reasons why you broke up. If he broke up with you, then he obviously is not in love with you...
Move on, find another better, he may be a great guy but their is so much more potential out there. Let go, and explore new adventures with new guys.
Also, I believe that "I love you" are just words, and can be faked for sympathy, or said without too much feeling.

Good luck, sorry to be harsh.

Just to add on, you're 14 years old! teenage relationships shouldn't be all about commitment and sex.
They should be fun, interesting, and are often controlled by symptons of growing up.

You may disagree, but please take my suggestions into consideration.