Please help, can't tell if she's lying or not

  • Michael W Gutierrez
    19 years ago

    There's this girl, named kelly, and I really like her alot. I don't know if she likes me or now. But, when me and her are on the phone talking, I do a good 75-80% of the talking, and she just answers my questions and says "what about you?" I told her she should ask me a question, but she said she wasn't good at coming up with questions, and that she likes the way I talk alot. Do you think she's lying? Is she saying that just to be nice? Because I've never EVER met a girl who likes the guy to talk more than them! Plz help

  • *HauntedByMemories*
    19 years ago

    I would guess she probably really does like, and is maybe just shy. Give a bit. How does she act at school? Find out from her friends who shes into. You may have a good chance. Besides, she may like that you talk alot, she may like finding out about you.
    Good luck!!
    Robyn

  • SatinRisse
    19 years ago

    I hate talking on the phone, but I do a lot anyway. Lol...But she might like it because most guys don't talk when you're on the phone with them. I don't know why, but you guys are just plain weird like that. Lol.

    But like Robyn said, she might be shy and really into you, but doesn't know how to tell you, and that was clue.

  • ღ*KiM*ღ
    19 years ago

    I hate talkin on the fone and wen i have 2 tlk on the fone, i dnt tlk much. Its wen im txting that i do a lot of tlkin. I jus feel shyer wen im on the fone

  • Kaitlin Kristina
    19 years ago

    Some girls really are like that, not very talkative or shy. She may appreciate it or she may think it's really irritating. If she is making excuses to get off of the phone a lot then you can take that as a hint, but other than that she told you that she likes it, so roll with it and see where it goes.

  • Michael W Gutierrez
    19 years ago

    here's where I'm twisted. I've already told her that I like her like that. So if she's into me, wouldn't she just say she does?

  • Eibutsina
    19 years ago

    Have your tried asking her how she feels about you? To me that would solve your problem and answer your question...

  • michelle
    19 years ago

    maybe you should try not calling her. if she calls you and the same thing is happening then she is telling the truth. if she doesnt call then she is lying and you shouldnt bother with her

  • The Angel of Secrets
    19 years ago

    cant you see it in her eyes if she is lying or not?

  • Michael W Gutierrez
    19 years ago

    I asked her on the phone I said " You know what? I ask a bunch of questions, why don't you ask me a question?" and she said " No, I'm not good with thinking of questions, I like the way you always have something to talk about, and that you ask alot of questions." In the contezt can you tell if she's lying or not?

  • SatinRisse
    19 years ago

    To me she sounds like she really enjoys talking to you. I dunno...I loved that when my boyfriend and I were first getting close, he would ask me 238974289347 questions, and then he would do the same thing. Ask me to ask him something. I would always tell him that I don't have anyone, that I like him asking me, and we're madly in love now.

    I dunno....you can tell by the way she says it. Her tone. If she keeps saying it all the time to you, then I would ask her what's up. You know?

  • Shædow Poet
    19 years ago

    If you do the whole 'not calling her to see if she calls you' she might NOT call you because she might think you don't want to talk to her... meh, people are complex things.
    I think she could just be a non-talkative person. If she seems to like you calling her, and doesn't try to get off the phone quickly, and you don't mind her being quiet then... don't worry about a thing.
    If only there were more guys out there like you that LIKED talking a lot :P

  • Jenny Sys
    19 years ago

    To be honest with you I do a lot of the talking whenever I'm on the phone, be it to someone I like or just a friend. But sometimes, I like to just sit and listen to the guy I like talk. I like to find out about him, and he has a lovely voice, so I really wouldn't worry about it. I bet she just likes to hear your voice and know that you are just on the other end of the phone incase she needs you.
    That's what I think anyways, that's how things have been with a guy before anyway.