I NEED HELP .....I AM GOIN TO LOSE THE GIRL I LOVE!!!

I love the girl so much .....she is 16 i am 15 ......she didn respond to anything i did even sending her love poems....after another guy who is my friend but older 17y.. confessed to her that he loves her and hanged a poem about his love to her in school..she thanked him ..not more,,,,but there is a party one of my school mates arranged and she and the 17y guy r invited and i am not...but she doesn know that 17y is comin ...i am afraid he is goin to ask her to dance and might stick to her all the party time then its over for me!!!!.......cause before to days i saw them talkin to each other and she was very happy,smiling even laughing ......i am affraid she likes him....iI TRIED TO MAKE HER LAUGH OR SMILE EVEN ONCE BUT NO HOPE!!!!!!.......plz help me quickly

I think it's time to step back and look at the big picture, mate.

From what you have said I really don't think she is interested in you. Sure, it's going to be hard to come to terms with, but hey fella, that's life.

If she won't even respond to your poems is she worthy of you? Your girlfriend has got to be worthy, not the other way around.

thank u very much for ur quick reply

you sound like you really like this girl a lot...all i can say, and it might not even make you feel better is this: if she goes for this other guy, don't feel so awful, there is someone out there who will appreciate and see the affection and love you have to offer. you can't make yourself miserable over one person no matter how special you feel they are. spend your time caring this much about someone who will care this much about you...

thank u all for ur suggestions .......but i think she already know that i love her from the way i treat her.....and the thing that i cant imagine is that she took the older guy and he have'nt done anything to cause her to love him .......just he confessed and hanged the poems in school !!!!!!......and about the poems i sent when she seaked to know y i sent them ...i said that i have a friend who likes collecting poems and sends some to me....i made it up of course!...i didn want her to tell me that she does'nt like me too early!!!!!!....plz continue posting ur really helping u guys

thanks all

well i think you know what you did wrong with the poems!!!you have to tell her. you have to think about it this way, the worst that will happen is that she will tell you that she doesnt feel the same way and even though thats really bad atleast it will be over and you dont have to suffer any more. you seem really sweet and you dont need someone putting you through all this. good luck to you and whatever decision that you make.if you need more advice you can email me.

i really appreciate wat u all said but the thing is i cant find the best way to make here love me.......
the party is tommorow .!!!!.........plz help

thanks all

Snake there is no way to make someone lvoe you. I know. Its just not possible. See how it goes and if tis the end for you, try and mvoe on. I know how it feels to have 2 move on and yeah its hard but...that might be the only way. im sorry xXx

Hun, there is no way you can MAKE someone love you. If the feelings arn't there then you just gotta move on ...

thnx u guys .......i think i can feel that ....but i am still trying to make hope ......even 0.000000000001%

thanks all

Come on .........people help me i need more solutions plz!!!!!

Sorry for giving you hard time in this All!!!

THe Snake Eater

No offence hun - here comes the blunt harsh truth, as Oprah would say "She's just not that into you" or as I would say she doesn't like you, at least not in the same way you feel about her - sorry :o(

thnx all

i confesed to her that i loved her ...
and eneded the subject !!!

But it didn work!!!!!

she is not talkin to me at all now!!!

But it didn Work!!

Now we r not talkin At aLLL?????

well if she wont talk to you because you expressed your feelings 4 her, i dont think she deserves you!!!!

okay firstly u deserve better. i was goin to put be honest and tell this girl which u did and she should b ashamed of herself for being so shallow. it takes a lot of guts to tell soemone how u feel and she shuld have respected u for that. shell obviously more immature than u and i rekon the older guy will get bored of her as soon as he realises this. im sorry it didnt work out luv! but like i said u deserve someone who respects and loves u and shes clearl not grown up enough to relasie that!
if u wana chat email me!
xxxLoUxxx

ok she just dosnt deserve ya!!!!!!!!!!! and when she finally notices what a nice guy you are youl have moved on...........her bad luck

I really thank you all for standing with me in this!!

i tried to find a girl who would make me forget her
but no hope .......the problem is that i see her at school everyday but i dont greet her at all neither does she ........i cant even stop myself from looking at her even once !!

thnx again for help

The Snake Eater