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Got a problem? E-mail me from my profile. I'll be happy to help.

How many Timothy's are we on this site anyway
I'd be glad to help anyone who needs help aswell

Glad to see that some one else is willing to help others. Go ahead and contact either of us, I'm sure that we can help you.

Oh thats very kind of you sometimes people need someone to listen - very nice gesture Tim

Thank you, Eirisa.

No, seriously people. I want to help you. Just talk to me.

A lot of people that come in here are just trying to help others that have gone through the same thing. It's very nice of you set up a seperate topic about it, but seriously. A lot of people in here care, and want to help. Just read through some of this stuff.

You make it sound like you're the only one....oh that came out bad...sorry....didn't mean to sound like a bitch.....don't be mad....

Sorry if I came off as egotistical. Didn't mean to do that. It's just that I do better in a one-on-one situation. Sorry.

HELLOOOOOOO TIMMY! can i call u tht? i have some issues u can help me with?? can i PM u?????

and cd u chek out my newst poem "so much pain" tht explains what im hurt about basically

love ya!
xxxx

Hey, that's what I'm here for. Go ahead and shoot. And I've already checked your poem out and commented.

awwwwww thanku my darlin u rock my socks.

Does anybody else want to talk?

What do you do if you feel... I want to say abandoned, but thats not it. Okay, say you went through a really rough time, and one person was there for you then just leaves. She doesn't know she hurt you, but everytime you see her it hurts you even more. You dont want to care about her, but its stoping you from moving on, and it feels like theres nothing you can do. What do you do?

You need to talk with this person. Sit her down, explain your feelings, make her understand why you feel the way you do. She left you in your time of need, and in the process, unwittingly hurt you. Talk to her, my friend, talk to her.

EVERYONE says that... but, okay hers the story. Shes my dance teacher, so I HAVE to see her twice a week. Everything could get a hell of alot worse if she knew she was hurting me. It would be really wierd around her too. I dont want things to get worse. but Its still hard. She was the first one I ever trusted like that, and now shes gone. Well really, shes not gone, but it feels like she is... I dont know how to tell her, I odnt know if I want to

Why don't you tell me the whole story. If you do't want to put it out here, go to my profile and e-mail me from there.

I dont care, this is faster.... umm... okay, well I had alot going on with me, and I was really depressed and I started talking to her. A few emails, a short talk in person after DAnce class, you know just little things. Shes incredibly sweet and amazing and it helped me SOO much. but now things have gone totally wrong again, and I need her. But I dont want to email her, I leave hints in my msn names, she KNOWS something is wrong, why isn't she picking up on these things? I need her, and she said she would always be there for me, but why isn't she even bothering to ask if I'm okay?? I hurts, and I need her, but I dont want her to know she hurt me, cuz she will think I'm stupid. Theres a big age differnece between us, like 7 years, but earlier, she never made me feel like a little kid. She was great... now shes gone.

Okay, so she's 20, right? Maybe she has some problems of her own. But, it still isn't right for her to ignore some one who looks up to her. Like I said before, you need to talk with her, let her know what you're feeling. If she looks down on you or makes you feel insignificant, then she is not the type of person you want to talk with. If that is the case, you need to find some one else to talk to about your problems. I'm always her to talk. Just e-mail me anytime.

but waht about dance? okay heres the three possible senarios:
1: I give her the letter I wrote(and peom, its posted here), she gets it, everything goes well and shes back to being there for me.
2: I give her the letter, and she decides I'm being stupid and doesn't want me to be a part of her life anymore. but I still have to go to dance, so it is forever wierd and awful between us every night.
3: I dont say anything to her, she never picks up on any of the hints, and she never knows I'm hurting because of her. but shes happy, even tho I may not be.

I dont know waht to do, but it seems like if I talk to her, it will go seriously wrong. I'm scared. I love dance, I cant stop going to it. It would be too hard. but neither can she, shes the teacher!

Okay, I see two courses of action. You could either forget about her and find some one else to talk to. Or, you could talk to her and see how things turn out. If they turn out bad, oh well, you did what you had to do. You will go to dance and live through the weirdness and at least have the satisfaction of knowing that you are free of being pained by her. If things go well, you have now solved your problem. If she thinks that you are stupid, she is obviously not a good teacher, for a good teacher does not look down on her pupils.

...yeah... thats true... can you do me a quick favor and go to my poems and read "How much it hurts", its about her... I've seriously been thinking of giving it to her. What do you think?

It's quite a good poem. A few grammatical errors that you would want to correct before giving it to her, but a very well written, expressive poem. If you were to talk to her, write her a note, or contact her in anyway, that would be a good thing to include with it. It will show her exactly what you are feeling.

I'm really really really scared to do this... But monday at dance, I think I will give it to her. Everyone thinks I should... soo... okay okay. I will! Monday I will hand her the poem and the letter I wrote(never planed to give it to her, but I will).... I really hope everyone goes well tho. I'm really scare!

Everything**

Everything will be fine. If she doesn't want to help you, I will be here to listen to you when you want guidance.

Thanks... Thank you soo much.... really...

It's what I'm here for. I just want to help.

Thank you, Nano. Does anybody else wish to talk to some one who cares?