stuck between two friends

my friend for 10 years found out that she has an STD but still wants to continue sleeping around. i've said things to her about it but she doesnt want to listen. now i think that she is going to try to have sex with one of my other close friends and i dont wanna spread her business but i care about this other friend too... i dont want to be a bad friend to either of them...how do i make this right??????

What STD does she have? I think you should sit your friend down and have a strong talk with her about what she is doing. She's endangering other's for her own pleasure. If the talk doesn't get through to her, I think that you have an obligation to, as a friend, tell the friend she's trying to sleep with of her condition. After that, there's not much else you could do. Hope the best for you and your friends. If you still want advice on this or any other matter, just go to my profile and e-mail me from there.

Timothy Bledsoe

thanks a lot for the response...when i talked to her about it the first time she said that it wasnt my business to spread, but now it's getting personal.
thanks

Not a problem. If she plans on sleeping around and not telling the people she sleeps with about her STD, then it is your responsibility to tell your friends that she wants to sleep with. She has no right to endanger some one's health for her own pleasures. Like I said before, if you want to talk about anything, just e-mail me from my profile.

Best wishes

Timothy Bledsoe

its not your fault if she sleeps with one of your friends

thanks but i would regret that forever if she did that and i didnt say anything

You have to talk to her and tell her that what she's doing isn't right. If she just keeps blowing you off, then as stated before, you need to tell this other friend. You said that you would feel bad if anything happen, then don't let it!

If she ends up hating you for it then worry about it to much. You just saved someones life in a way....think about it....lose one friend? Or lose 2?

Just a thought.

that makes sense, thanks for your advice guys