Romance ?

I have lived with the same guy for 8 years. We have one child who is 7. When we use to have sex it was once a month. Now its been 10 months without. I know what my idea of romance is, But what is it to some one who wont hug or kiss or even god forbid have sex?

I have no clue.... Not that I want to touch him now any way.

Yes i have tryed to talk to him. he's not into that he would rather be any where but with me. I have the bipolar disorder and he just don't want to deal with my problems any more. If I was'n the mother of his little girl Im sure he would have left me by now.

If its been 10 mths without sex id have to say chances are hes gettinbg it somewhere.Why stay with a man who doenst show you affection and attraction .You dont need him in order to raise your daughter you can do better and find someone who will love you.Good luck to you.

I was with a guy for just under a year, and we didn't once have sex, obviously we would kiss and everything, but we never once had sex. I would say that it was one of my best relationships ever, if not the best. We wanted sex, but we never quite saw it in the right way, we wanted to make love, and it never really seemed to be the right time. So I went over a year without sex, and it was the best year of my life so far.