going both ways

has a lot of girls (or guys) thought about going both ways? i am so curious but i'm with a guy.

what no one can relate???????

I've never had a homosexual impulse. Sorry.

wow forget i asked

I haven't ever, but hey, if you want to explore, thats great! whatever you do, I hope it works out for ya.
Try not to break any hearts though!

No I don't think that I've ever thought about....I don't know....I have a lot of gay friends, and when we go out, and they bring there significant other, it's weird. I don't think that I could ever do it.

I love boys!! Lol.

thanks for those of you who answered. i know that was probably weird but its confusing for me too. i def love boys too!!!i could never hold a relationship with a girl, thats not what im saying. i just wondered what its like to be with a girl.

YES

RELATIONSHIP WITH A GIRL NO. ONLY OTHER.

thanks all!!

It is just in human nature to be curious about that stuff.

For a long time, people have asked me if I went both ways because I do comment on girls looks. I'm a girl, and if I think that another girl is pretty, I'm gonna say so!!

It doesn't mean that I would ever want a relationship with another girl. I never would. I think that it would just be weird. To me.

But I do comment on others girl when I'm out with my guy friends. I've gotten some bad comments about it, but some think that it's awesome because I don't really care. I know that I would much rather hold a guy, then another girl.

Girls are just to emotional, and I couldn't deal with it. To much drama. Lol...yes I'm bashing myself as well.

true true...thanks for the honesty. i dont want to be with a girl emotionally, i just wondered what it would be like to be with one phisically

sounds stupid. so hav i. Not like being WITH them. just like going with them. lol. silly hhhmmm so glad no one knows who i am. lol

thanks for being one of the few people who were brave enough to answer honestly. lol!

girls do tend to be more emotional, but they are also more caring. *bi-sexual, here*

yeah they can be a lot more caring.

I don't know...I personaly don't think that I could ever be comfortable with another girl. I've never thought about it, but since this question was asked, I really can't see me doing it.

I have nothing against bi-sexual relationships or people. Honestly! I have some friends that are bi, or all the way gay. I love them all very much and wouldn't want to change a thing about them! I just can't see myself in a bi-sexual relationship.

I do think that it's awesome when someone can come out and admit that they are. That's really cool.

Yeah, it does take a lot sometimes to admit that you are bi because you usally get "razzed" from both sides of society *stright, and gay*.

As for being comfortable with another girl, its just a personal thing. as in all relationships, if your are willing to work at it a little then it will work for you. but if you dont put any work into it, the relationship will just fall apart.

Yes, I have thought about being with another girl. I think about it alot. I'm not brave enough to try it out though. I usr to think I was the only straight person who has ever thought about being with another girl, then I start wondering if I straight.

Your not the only one with problems(LOL).

thanks again guys for really answering me honestly. you have no idea how much that means to me!!!!

Hahk, yes. i have. The way i see it (i'm mostly into guys) is that... if you like both sexes, you've got twice as many options... :P But, i tend to drift toward the guy folk (even though they drive me crazy!!! :P)

Michelle,
it's normal to be curious, and dont be ashamed either. i myself have experimented with the same sex and although i dont see myself as a lesbian, or even bi-sexual i'll continue to fool around with females. I dont have feelings for females, and im alos not attracted to females either, i just have a fascination:p Lol. Keep ya head up.

Hi Michelle, i can totally relate! i have a boyfriend who i have been with for 3 years and i love him dearly but every now and again i do get lesbian urges- i dont want to be a lesbian but i wonder what it would be like. Hope this helps
Kayleigh xx

thanks again, this is great that people know what i am talking about. you guys are great, if there are any more people who can comment i would love to hear!!

acctually yeah im with a girl and a guy right now although i love the gurl and not to sure about the guy the only way to know is to try it but make sure you are comfortable with whatever you are doing . i dont know i found girls to be more romantic goodluck

I had a stage where I thought I was going to be with a girl for the rest of my life! We really really liked eachother, but then one day I realised that I was still checking out guys, and still had really strong feelings for my guy ex. Since then I've faleen through that phase, and I'm comfortable with being straight...and I'm no longer confused about my sexuality. It is fun to have a laugh with people of the same sex though...adds a bit of spice to life!

thanks so much...the advice is great!!!!keep it coming!!

I am bisexual, I usually go for guys though. I am mainly attracted to guys, I think it may be because obviously in the world we live in there are more straight people. I have had a few girls though, I don't regret it, I just regret that more people aren't bisexual. A girl knows what a girl likes and therefore can give a girl what she wants. Also can give love and affection, but so can guys, so I do alternate between the two.

thanks, i think that i am just going to have the experience and then go from there, it's having that first experience that is the hard part. like where to find the girl, what to say, i wouldnt even know how to act, it's so stressful to even think about.ahhh thanks for your answer.

im a girl and i've been with a girl well not like that but i've madeout with them to me there better kisser's than guys go ahead have an experience see if you like ti or not

The first experience I had with a girl was actually my best friend!!!

Whenever u have your first experience e-mail me and let me know how it went. I'm thinking about it but I don't know how to take the first step.

i will def let you know, i just got to find the courage to do it. my biggest thing is how to aproach someone on it. i dont want to say something and then embarass myself. you know? what do you think i should say to the person, also i forgot to ask you guys, should i be friends with the person?

hey yea i know wot u mean by what u have been saying. i havent myself done anything but i know what u mean by the curiousity side of it...i duno, prob go out get a little tipsy with a distant friend (as in a friend u dont know too well but know a bit about. i wunt reccommend close friends because u wouldnt want it to be awkard between u both) and then see what happens. u cud ask her whilst ur both pretty drunk and then perhaps make a move?

Just out of curiosity, you know how gays have to "come out"? Like, tell family and friends? Do bi's have to too?

in answer to jackie....if u feel like u need to tell ur parents then go for it...but i dont think u need to....if u feel comfortable with them knowing then yea....but if not...just call her a mate! they need enver know ;) wink
xxxLoUxxx

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