Can't get over him

I had a relationship with a guy for a long time, and I liked him so much, then he told me that he didn't really like me anymore. I got over it, and then I saw him recently, and I like him all over again...almost as much as before. He has a g/f, and it hurts so much. Am I the only one like this? How can I not feel like this for him?

listen hunny you cant stop the way that you feel. things hurt bad and yes other people feel this way. i know that it seems really hard to believe this now but one day you will look at this and see that it wasnt as big as all the other wonderful things that are going to happen in your life. i dont know if that helped but its the truth. keep your head up girl!

Hey, thanks. I know I can't stop it...I just want to be friends with him...I wish that I could stop it. Its so hard to believe that I will love someone more than I ever loved him. (i think it was love...i thought about him all the time, dreamed about him all the time...and it hurt to not be with him). Thanks so much for posting. Anyone else???
Katie

I know how it feels...
my ex is an ass and yet whenever I see him I feel a pang of regret for losing him.
it goes away slowly overtime but a small part of your heart will always belong to him. leran to let go and move on so you can find someone who won't end up breaking your heart.

helpful advice- read the book "He's Just not that into you." it's AMAZING.

Thank you, Thank you! I'll check that out!

It will pass, or at least I hope it will.
I am in the exact same situation as you, we split up about 6 months ago, but as each day goes by, it gets a little easier. And as you were in a long term relationship, you would have been quite deep in it, so you need to give it time so you can get out of that deep feeling and it will eventually become non-exsistant.