Any Ideas???

Can you tell me waht she did? I may be able to help, but maybe you could tell me a little more of the story first?

I know how that feels.... I want to make someone feel really bad to, hmm... I dont really know waht you could do, Just be careful and dont go too far. I hope someone tell you how to hurt someone, cuz I wanna know too!!! lol

Don't hurt yourself to get back at some one else. That's a foolhardy thing to do. You want her to feel badly? Make sure she knows that you don't give a hoot about what she thinks. Hurting yourself will only make her hold you in more contempt. She will see it as a desperate attempt for attention (which is what it really is). She won't feel bad for you. I read your other post, I know what you did. She doesn't care what you do to yourself, so doing anything like hurting yourself will do nothing but cause pain for you.

Thats true, it some ways.... For me, in my case, I just want her back. lol. I'll talk to you in the other post Timothy, thanks, I really need your help!

You're not letting her win. Her feelings are not your problem. Grow up and take responsibility for your actions. Be a better person than they are and forgive them of their hate. Don't let teenage drama ruin the rest of your life. You have a lot longer to live yet.

You will be okay... but think of it this way, if she said she doesn't care what you do, then you go and do something, isn't that letting her win to?

She has a point. I never said to let her walk all over you. Don't let anyone walk all over you. Just be the bigger person and forgive her for her hate. Hurting yourself will help nothing, and will only hurt you. You will live that long. You're young, yet, and don't fully understand the intimate workings of the social mind. You will one day grow to learn that you are an important person. An important person to at least one person out there in the big world. There is always one person who wants to help you. I will be that person, if you like of me, until you find one that you can actually talk to.

lol..umm... okay... you say she doesn't care about you, so she doens't care waht you do. If you try to kill yourself just to get back at her, shes not going to care. so again, you dont win. so whats the point?... but I know how much it hurts. I'm going through the exact same thing. You want her back dont you? she obviously means alot to you, so you want her back. I want my friend back to, but I want her to know how much she hurt me so I want to hurt her. Am I close to waht you feel like?

ok dont actually do it, but you could giv her a scare. If you cut urself, show her a recent cut (if u hav any, DONT make new 1s) and say 2 her damn not deep enuff, then dont turn up 4 skool the next day. That should really shit her up. Pointless post i no...but im bored :P

thats a good Idea if you cut... what if you dont?

You may be just one person in the world, but to one person you may be the world.

Revenge is useless and overrated. Even if you succeed in hurting your friend, it won't make you feel better, not deep down. You will just feel dirty. You are better off just telling her calmly how you feel.

The best thing you can do in a situation like this is to stand up to yourself! Not her! If she said she doesn't care, then show her that you don't either and that you're better off without her. Laugh with people in front of her. Make her, jealous of you!

If might not be real, but it's fun to do! It's gotten me some friends back! As weird as it might sound. But really, by hurting yourself to show her that you'll do it, isn't going to have to big of an effect on her, if she already told you that you don't care.

I can't make you stop hurting yourself. If you're going to cut because of her, then that's your business. But don't do it, to get back at her!!! It's not not worth the pain and scars that you'll have later on down the road. You need to take a deep breath, and step out into the real world babe!!

Stand up for yourself. By harming yourself, is letting her win. And it's not going to mean that she's walking all over you if you don't do it. Like I said, you have to make her jealous, just like she's making you. Because deep down, thats what it's coming to.

You made a wise choice. If you ever want to talk about anything, anything at all, just e-mail me from my profile.

Best wishes

Timothy Bledsoe