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  • ღ*KiM*ღ
    19 years ago

    Evrybody has bad times and i know coz i learnt that the hard way. Try and get along with your brothers and sisters as best as you can - this will make it easier for your mum and home. Try and cheer her up, with the little things; breakfast in bed, flowers, etc. You can't really help with her job. If you're old enough, try and get your own kind of job, and tell her its to share the income in the house. With your friends, talk to him/her about it. Ask her why s/he is thinking and talking about suicide and just try and comfort and support her.
    I hope this helps! If you wana talk mroe just Email me from my profile.

  • SatinRisse
    19 years ago

    Kim kind of took my idea. Lol...I was going to say try to get your own job as well. If you can. If not, then help around the house. Make her bed for her. Make her a pot of coffee for when she comes home. Try the flowers. And get along with your brother and sister. I have 5 siblings, and it's hard for us to get along, but when we see our mom cry because we fight so much, it really cheers her up to see us just doing the dishes together. You know what I mean?

    Just try to be there for her. If she has a crappy job, and then the job of taking care of you guys at home, then you really need to just help her out a lot. Do whatever you can. Dishes, clean the bathroom, vaccum...and maybe leave her a little note on her bed. Tell her that you love her, and that you're sorry things are a mess right now, but you love her and are going to help her out the best you can. This will also mean a lot if you guys fight at all.

    For your friend, ask them whats going on. Just tell them that you're there for them. That you're going to push aside your problems, to listen to theirs. Don't forget about yours, but it will mean a lot to hear that thats how much you care about them.

    I hope I helped. Good luck with everything!