The person I like has a crush on my best friend PLEASE HELP ME!

  • M
    19 years ago

    I cant belive this happened to me...It feels terrible. Every time I look at either of them I just feel like dieing.. I really need some help. This is just pure BS. The fact is, My best friend doesnt love her NEARLY as much as i do. this really sucks... Someone help me deal with all of it...

  • SatinRisse
    19 years ago

    I agree. You have to talk to him about it first. Find out how he feels about it.

    Also, if it turns out that he really likes her as well, then you need to give him your blessing. It will be hard to deal with, but you need to be happy for them. You need to support them and be their friend. If you really like her, then be there for her. Girls like to complain about their boyfriend sometimes, and it's easier to talk to their best friend about it. Trust me! I've done before! Lol.

    But talk to him about it. If it looks like she's going to get hurt, or the other way, then you need to try to help stop it.

  • shatteredsoul
    17 years ago

    Oh. dam.
    trust me
    it passes
    it will take a while and it will hurt
    but it always passes

  • Monica AKA Mika
    17 years ago

    I have been thru this ecaxt thing, except i wanted to get back with my ex but he had a crush on my bf, but anyways..does your bf like her back? Cuz if he was really your bf then you would have nothing to worry about...and if he does like her too, then you just gotta let things happen, everything happens for a reason...always keep that in the back of your head...