Age gap.....HELP!!! Please =*(

I'm in love with this guy that is 6 years older than me and i dnt know what to do..he thinks i am 4 years older than i actually am, and i know its wrong to lie to him, especially because he said he loves me back and that hes fallen for me, i really dont know what to do... please help!!!

well obviously you can see where you went wrong, with lying in the first place. but i can see how you got that far because i used to lie to guys because i didnt think anything serious was going to come out of it. you need to tell him the truth if he really loves y ou he will learn how to forgive and forget.

i agree with michelle... i feel your pain... i have a crush on a teacher that's 16 years older than me... T-T i hate it cuz we can never be together..

Well I also agree, you need to tell him the truth as soon as possible and if he does love you, then you have nothing to worry about at all.

It depends on how old you are, if you're really 15 or younger than you have no choice but to tell him.

Any relationship built on a foundation of lies is destined to fail. You might be lucky, but if nothing else you'll be wiser for the experience.

Hey You need to tell him before he finds out from someone else! He'll take it better comin straight from you rather than from some random he might not even know... You know wat i mean?

You really do need to tell him. And yes, if he loves you then he'll forgive and forget...

BUT...think about it....you lied to him when you first started off the relationship, about something like your age. This could be a big problem because then he'll start to wonder what else you've lied to him about.

If he loves you, then it might take him some time to turn around and forgive you. He may also just say to forget it.

Prepair yourself for the worse is what I always say!

In my experiance, relationships based on lies normally dont end well.

Especially not well for the lyer.

You have to be honest with him and let him decide how he feels based upon what's REAL.

If you are under the age of consent wherever you live then you owe it to him to tell him the truth, because he could get in A LOT of trouble for this.

sorry but i have been out with older lads before and you may not realise at the time but it is pretty pathetic, if you truly like someone would you not be honest in stead of lie, i find that alot of girls go through a stage where they date older lads to make themselves feel more grown up!

*Edited myself...

that has happend to me b4.. but not lying about my age... i liked this guy and i lied to him A LOT... about my whole life story.. but one day I realized that I really loved him, and so I told him the truth... yeah he was upset for a while but he got over it... and we are dating now..

if he really loves you then he wont care the age difference.. to me age is just a number but to law it isnt... some people dont understand that age is just a number and it is.. so go for the gold tell him the truth.. if you want to talk my email is: lone_some9@hotmail.com

**_** Marci

what's with the sudden onslaught of all these age gaps anyway? just read the other ones instead of posting your own. they all say the same thing anway.
-A