SatinRisse
19 years ago
I think that something like this was started on here before....I dunno...maybe I'm just nuts... |
Jenny Sys
19 years ago
I think that you can fall in love with someone's appearence at first sight, but you don't know them as a person at that point. I think that love is something which will develope over a long time, as you get to know the person more and more, you will fall deeper and deeper in love with them, with different aspects of them. I don't think that you should say that you are in love with someone if you hardly know them, your only in love with their appearence and what they have shown you.... It may not actually be who they are, they could be putting on a front. |
SatinRisse
19 years ago
Well in your case I would think of it more as a very strong crush. Which is great. That's how love starts. But you have to really get to know the person before it can be love. At least in my opinion. |
SatinRisse
19 years ago
I'm not saying that love at first sight isn't possible. I don't feel that it is, but to others I know that they would say that it could be. |
Casval
19 years ago
I'm on both sides of the debate when it comes to "Love at first sight" |
SatinRisse
19 years ago
Actually....the glass is neither half empty nor half full! It's just twice as large as it needs to be!! Lol. |
daisy
19 years ago
Love at first sight is real...of course it's not considered love if it's just the appearance you want. sometimes you can tell stuff about people just by watching them and that's what you fall in love with. I know because it happened to me. We never were together because he's not ready for a relationship but we became pretty good friends and I still love him. |
Maddie
19 years ago
Well i don't believe that anyone can actually be "in love" with someone at first glance. Love comes from within, however, i do believe you can notice someone, be attracted or even have a feeling telling you that they could be the one. The guy i liked a lot, i wouldn't really say loved, was not all that great looking.. but the moment i saw him i knew he was special and turns out i was right. |
Joy
19 years ago
I do believe in love at first site, but I think there are different forms of it. What I mean is that you may fall for the person the second you see them, or it may take awhile for you to realize you love them. Even if it takes a long time, I believe that deep down you do love them, you just don't realize it. I knew I was in love with my b/f the second I laid eyes on him, but it took him almost a year to finally realize that he loved me. He doesn't believe in love at first site b/c of this, but I told him my opinion on it, and he respects it and is starting to believe its true. Just follow your heart, if you believe you love them, then you probably do!! Good luck in the future... |