Love at first sight!!!!

  • star
    19 years ago

    yes i do

  • SatinRisse
    19 years ago

    I think that something like this was started on here before....I dunno...maybe I'm just nuts...

    I don't believe in love at first sight. That would mean that it was more so the outer apperance of the person that you fell for, and I don't like that. I need to really get in the others person head before I can I love them.

    I do think that just after a couple of dates you can have loveing feelings, but not be IN love with someone.

    Just my opinion!

  • Jenny Sys
    19 years ago

    I think that you can fall in love with someone's appearence at first sight, but you don't know them as a person at that point. I think that love is something which will develope over a long time, as you get to know the person more and more, you will fall deeper and deeper in love with them, with different aspects of them. I don't think that you should say that you are in love with someone if you hardly know them, your only in love with their appearence and what they have shown you.... It may not actually be who they are, they could be putting on a front.

  • SatinRisse
    19 years ago

    Well in your case I would think of it more as a very strong crush. Which is great. That's how love starts. But you have to really get to know the person before it can be love. At least in my opinion.

    Again, to me love at first sight is more of a phyisical attraction to the other person. Everyone is going to have their own opinion about it but don't start saying that somone elses opinion is bullshit. Just don't start that.

  • SatinRisse
    19 years ago

    I'm not saying that love at first sight isn't possible. I don't feel that it is, but to others I know that they would say that it could be.

    I just hate when one person has an opinion and someone else says that it's bullshit.

    I'm not going to change my mind about it, and I know that's not what you were trying to do, but I just want to throw that out there. Lol.

    I think that it's great that you still keep a place for him in your heart. I'm sorry that things ended how they did and all that, but I think that it's great that you were looking out for him, and will never regret your decision. That's awesome.

  • Casval
    19 years ago

    I'm on both sides of the debate when it comes to "Love at first sight"

    On one hand, the science hand, for a person to be in love with another person, they must know that person well, and have gone through personal experiences witht hem to be able to trust them so much it turns into love...

    ...On the other hand, the plausable hand, it's just like people say: "There is someone for everyone"...Or something like that...ANyhow, I believe there is a spiritual connection between two persons on this planet, and it stays hidden until those two people find each other, whether it be by chance, or by lcuk, or any other reason, and the love for that "one person" that has been hiding deep inside for so long finaly comes at, hence my deffinition of "Love at first sight".

    Remember to always think possitivly--the glass is half full rather then half empty. If you want to do so, go for the second hand...

  • SatinRisse
    19 years ago

    Actually....the glass is neither half empty nor half full! It's just twice as large as it needs to be!! Lol.

    Sorry...thought that I would throw that in there.....LMAO....gets me everytime. Lol.

  • daisy
    19 years ago

    Love at first sight is real...of course it's not considered love if it's just the appearance you want. sometimes you can tell stuff about people just by watching them and that's what you fall in love with. I know because it happened to me. We never were together because he's not ready for a relationship but we became pretty good friends and I still love him.

  • Maddie
    19 years ago

    Well i don't believe that anyone can actually be "in love" with someone at first glance. Love comes from within, however, i do believe you can notice someone, be attracted or even have a feeling telling you that they could be the one. The guy i liked a lot, i wouldn't really say loved, was not all that great looking.. but the moment i saw him i knew he was special and turns out i was right.

  • Joy
    19 years ago

    I do believe in love at first site, but I think there are different forms of it. What I mean is that you may fall for the person the second you see them, or it may take awhile for you to realize you love them. Even if it takes a long time, I believe that deep down you do love them, you just don't realize it. I knew I was in love with my b/f the second I laid eyes on him, but it took him almost a year to finally realize that he loved me. He doesn't believe in love at first site b/c of this, but I told him my opinion on it, and he respects it and is starting to believe its true. Just follow your heart, if you believe you love them, then you probably do!! Good luck in the future...

    .:jOy:.